sometimes i hate that god gave me...

[Tinkerbell725]

Sky: you are right. Nothing is more beautiful than the passion of Christ on the cross. So beautiful and moving that it made me cry a tear today at church.

 

[tourist]

A little help in telling who's who.... Pink names are girls, blue names are guys....

You're hot pink.

 

[Colt45Bullet]

God needs to be capitol.

 

[Tinkerbell725]

Thanks for the reps tourist. Hello hot pink lady JL.

 

[Colt45Bullet]

Hate nothing the LORD has given you. For everything he gives is good; but flesh destroys and tarnishes His goodness.

 

[AbigailZeke]

I don't think you are actually seeking spiritual advice, maybe you are just
fishing for compliments?

This had me thinking. Nothing bad with fishing compliments at that age. I mean, I think it's part of growing up. But it doesn't end there. Anyway, before I get derailed.

If you needed us to affirm your identity, godsslife, who you are and if you matter or valuable, no harm in admitting that. No judgement. But if you haven't realised yet, that that's what you're needing, maybe this is a good time to reflect?

And if it is, then there IS a solution.

 

[Grandpa]

Imagine all the opportunities for sharing the gospel with people.

Instead of sharing sin.


I thank God for His Mercy and Forgiveness, in spite of our "shortcomings".

 

[Depleted]

Is it just me who finds the girl on the right way more beautiful? Or maybe that's the point of the picture.

Looks like the same person to me, except the one just got out of the shower, so her hair is wet. lol

 

[Depleted]

I can virtually assure 25 pages, and a week of joy by announcing, THERE IS NO WAY A PERSON CAN LOSE THEIR SALVATION!

Sorry... was in a grenade tossing mood...

 

[Miri]

I knew one girl in high school who was very into herself she would say that she feels so sad for ugly people and she tried to sound like she really meant it, I was one of the ones she was sad about because I was bald. Granted she didn't know I had cancer but even so lol

Aaawww you could never be ugly bro...

 

[Depleted]

Firstly, God isn't the only one that knows what you say. A bunch of people on here can read it.
Second I understand what you were saying in your first post. Hence my answer. This belief that because no one is telling you what you wanted doesn't mean no one understands. It just means you don't like hearing what people are saying because it puts the blame on you for your sins.
The people who actually Offer anything you ignore, while people you perceive as sarcastic are the ones you respond to.

 

[Depleted]

You simply have more problems when you're beautiful. You have to watch out with rapists and people that try to take advantage of you and you get more temptation if you're open for that. One girl who went to our church is so stunningly beautiful. She's gonna do the Miss Holland contest this year. Have her as a Facebook friend. She doesn't go to church anymore. Every time another beautiful pic and those eeeww guys responding, that whole world she's in. She lets herself be treated like a piece of meat. Such a pity. She's really lovely. It's not always a blessing. Guess it's like money. A poor person will say what are you complaining about to a millionair, but it can be a snare.
Try to look more plain, put a knot in, don't use make up, wear guy's clothes and less guys will bother or tempt you.

On a scale of 1-10, when I was 20, I was an 8 in body shape and a 4 face wise. So, when I hitchhiked I wore my bigger brother's holey-denim jacket (definitely a guy's jacket), lose-fitting trousers (still my preference), and buttoned up shirt buttoned to the neckline. (Only top button left unbuttoned.)

Five guys picked me up. Out of the five guys, the ugliest was only an 8. Some of them were 20-year-old Brad Pitt and George Clooney gorgeous. (I also thought gorgeous guys would never rape anyone because they could get all the girls they wanted -- except me.)

I was raped.

Don't keep passing on this old wive's tale, it's not true and it's very harmful.

(Not angry, or even upset, but I do ache for any woman who believes it.)

 

[Depleted]

It's a little disappointing that the people who replied you are attractive, are the
ones who you said thank you to and felt understood you. But the ones
who attemted to offer spiritual advice while not pandering to you, were
either ignored or labelled as sarcastic.

I don't think you are actually seeking spiritual advice, maybe you are just
fishing for compliments?

But if I have got this wrong I apologise and by all means let us know if
there is anything we can pray about for you.

Wait! Willies' avatar doesn't do it for you? Dang! I know that's not Willie today, but, dang! That's up there with Brad Pitt and George Clooney gorgeous to me. I mean DANG!

I know, Willie. It's such a burden.

(Must stop ogling avatars.

)

 

[Depleted]

Hi S,

Something has bothered me about this post, are you messaging each other?

Just wondered as I don't think it's a good idea. A young 17 year old (she said in
another post she is not 18 for a few months) comes on and says she is having problems
the tone implies with men.

And a 31 year old man who is a complete stranger to her says I have got your back.

If anyone has her back it should be her parents, family Jesus, not a complete
strange man who knows nothing about her.

Some of her other posts give an inkling of the issues, maybe it would be better
not to encourage an impressionable 17 year old too much - just saying.

I don't know in this case, but have your back is very American. I have your back. I have a few people's back on here. It's more a military term, (keeping an eye out for enemy at the flank) then body (checking out your back side.) So, it might be another Americanism.

 

[Depleted]

Yea youre very wrong .. And "us" i think you're speaking for yourself .. I responded to most thank you because ive seen them before on my posts and they were actually kind and gave me real advice unlike others i dont really call that advice most just gave an opinion of my character when they have no idea how i am.. instead of helpful advice .. I dont know maybe its me or the words they chose .. But i suggest next time you have an assumption you should maybe think about it before writing it to a stranger and just because i didnt answer some people and i posted on here doesnt mean anything . and if you seen some of my threads before i dont answer to most people if i find them to be fake christians or critical people who call themselves christians .. I suggest you stick to praying for me if you dont mind and i hope youre not trolling . god bless..

Okay are you really this blinded by yourself and don't notice you're doing the exact same thing to quite a few people or are you a troll looking for attention? Because the person putting down the most people on this thread is you.

 

[Depleted]

Lol are you still carrying this on today?
You wanna see beautiful...that my heart is going to cry for?
Try looking at Jesus on the cross!
Better yet...if your beauty makes you so sad.
Why don't you visit the childrens burn unit at your local hospital.

Today is about the beauty of Christ.

Best wishes to your posting the fact that your beautiful, but doing it in a deceiving waym
Like you don't like it.

I know...I know

You are going to offer prayer to my unkindness
Please do....
I'm so worried about where I'm going...rollseyes

I don't recommend going to a children's burn unit to avoid beauty. I've seen enough sick kids to see beauty often in them no matter what they look like.

 

[Depleted]

You're hot pink.

 

[coby]

On a scale of 1-10, when I was 20, I was an 8 in body shape and a 4 face wise. So, when I hitchhiked I wore my bigger brother's holey-denim jacket (definitely a guy's jacket), lose-fitting trousers (still my preference), and buttoned up shirt buttoned to the neckline. (Only top button left unbuttoned.)

Five guys picked me up. Out of the five guys, the ugliest was only an 8. Some of them were 20-year-old Brad Pitt and George Clooney gorgeous. (I also thought gorgeous guys would never rape anyone because they could get all the girls they wanted -- except me.)

I was raped.

Don't keep passing on this old wive's tale, it's not true and it's very harmful.

(Not angry, or even upset, but I do ache for any woman who believes it.)

Yes those are just demon posessed, but with the less hard cases it worked to just look like a guy. We got the most attention from guys who just wanted sex (what did we know when we were 16, it was so nice when someone liked you) when we dressed up and used make up to get attention. Busy for an hour so some guy would like you. That was not God's fault. Did blame my naive mother though who didn't even warn me.

 

[Miri]

I don't know in this case, but have your back is very American. I have your back. I have a few people's back on here. It's more a military term, (keeping an eye out for enemy at the flank) then body (checking out your back side.) So, it might be another Americanism.

Thank you for explaining, much appreciated.

 

[jenniferand2]

I at one time was very beautiful and took great care of myself and yes did dis sinful things with my mind and body because i did not respect myself. I understand that being beautiful and having every guy hit on you and looking at you as a sex object etc... I found myself living a very sinful life because I did not have respect for my own body and self and i was young and just living it up. I am now 43 years old and have two beautiful children and I am trying to regain respect for myself and for the lord. I have also lived a life that has wore me out and made me look old etc,, so now I look just like a regular person but my heart is healing from all my choices I made early in life. I think that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It does not matter if you are regular looking or beautiful If you have the respect for yourself and guys are being distasteful and showing you negative attention then you need to be strong enough to say you deserve better then that and walk away. while it is nice to get attention at times to make yourself feel good dont get me wrong. I feel that one you should be thankful for the beauty you have both on the outside and the inside even beautiful people can be ugly on the inside. So take time and thank GOD for what you have and pray that God will help you find positive people to be around and not people that are fake and use woman for their looks and not their inner beauty and I think you will be fine.