Different Levels of Singleness...

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Here is the scenario :)

Good Christian guy sees good Christian girl but does not know if he is
good enough for her, or she good enough for him. So he prayers and waits
for her to make the first move.

Good Christian girl sees good Christian guy but does not know if she is
good enough for him, or he for her. So she prayers about it and waits for
him to make the first move.

Good Christian guy wonders and waits but she makes no move, so he pretends
he is not interested and does nothing.

Good Christian girl wonders and waits but he makes no move, so she pretends
she is not interested and does nothing.


The rest of the congregation thinks wouldn't they make a happy couple,
pity they are not interested in each other, such a shame.

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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bLba5Ld4VhE

People are just too chicken. LOL my collegue still doesn't know how to respond to me since I drunk texted him a few months back. And I work with him all the time, he sits 5 meters next to me. Yet some people are too chicken to make a move on internet.
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
The few eligible Christian guys are still there waiting patiently. I guess the Christian women just don't notice, or either don't want a Christian guy.
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GodIsSalvation said:
Unfortunately accurate indeed.....and yet we cannot stop trying to love the princesses of Israel though they hate and have in derision and mockery the only men that would even try to love them. :(
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Lol I can see why they don't like what Paul says. Too much truth. The Christian guys are there, they speak fair to the maidens, but the maidens do not want to hear the Christian guys. They don't like them because they're kind to them and they actually listen to them and get to know them, but so-called Christian women today don't want a guy to listen to them or try to understand them.

Therefore let them be delivered into what they want, let them be a prey for the men they want.

2 Timothy 3:6

[SUP]6 [/SUP]For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
Lol I can see why they don't like what Paul says. Too much truth. The Christian guys are there, they speak fair to the maidens, but the maidens do not want to hear the Christian guys. They don't like them because they're kind to them and they actually listen to them and get to know them, but so-called Christian women today don't want a guy to listen to them or try to understand them.

Therefore let them be delivered into what they want, let them be a prey for the men they want.

2 Timothy 3:6

[SUP]6 [/SUP]For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
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Actually, Paul is da bomb. However, I think everyone on here knows me well enough to know that I shouldn't even have to respond to this.

Since no further rebuttal is necessary, I leave you therefore with this completely irrelevant and excellent reprise of "Jesus Freak" by DC Talk.

(If you play this particular version while reading through this thread, you will find that it greatly enhances the experience and suddenly everything will make sense.)
[video=youtube;FcLP-kVEDjo]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FcLP-kVEDjo[/video]
 
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I apologize for derailing this thread. xD
Please continue.
 
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Actually, Paul is da bomb. However, I think everyone on here knows me well enough to know that I shouldn't even have to respond to this.
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Lol and yet you just did :p.

You're funny lady crosstweed, I'm rather surprised you're still single. Don't be like the other women of the world so carried off by worldly things. Praise Jesus and may a meek but loving Christian man be glad to love you.
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
Lol and yet you just did :p.

You're funny lady crosstweed, I'm rather surprised you're still single. Don't be like the other women of the world so carried off by worldly things. Praise Jesus and may a meek but loving Christian man be glad to love you.
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I'm single by choice. Like a lot of good Christian women, actually.
 
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I'm single by choice. Like a lot of good Christian women, actually.
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Lol they say that, but then I've read the other singles topics :p. I can see into the heart. You're very honest though unlike some women that claim to be Christian, so I believe you. I think though you're a strong woman, I think you would make a real Christian man feel appreciated. Many men will want you for your strength, but the Christian man will love you for your fragility. May God draw him closer to you with each passing day. :)
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
Lol I can see why they don't like what Paul says. Too much truth. The Christian guys are there, they speak fair to the maidens, but the maidens do not want to hear the Christian guys. They don't like them because they're kind to them and they actually listen to them and get to know them, but so-called Christian women today don't want a guy to listen to them or try to understand them.

Therefore let them be delivered into what they want, let them be a prey for the men they want.

2 Timothy 3:6

[SUP]6 [/SUP]For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
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I suppose those are the ones that said no. Then try another one. Sure there must be none you are not intersted in. Oh wait you do the same thing. Why I had an atheist was because those lovely christian men thought I wasn't good enough with their demand lists. Well let them. What do I care?
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
Lol they say that, but then I've read the other singles topics :p. I can see into the heart. You're very honest though unlike some women that claim to be Christian, so I believe you. I think though you're a strong woman, I think you would make a real Christian man feel appreciated. Many men will want you for your strength, but the Christian man will love you for your fragility.
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I don't think you have nearly the heart-insight you think you have, or else you would have never made the nasty blanket statement you did earlier (much prior rebuffment, methinks?). It's true that a lot of women lack character and wisdom, and that many who claim to be Christians are not. I'll also tell you that personally I know of a lot more young single Christian women who are honestly seeking and serving God than I do of young single Christian men.

And you're wrong.
A Christian man will love and desire me for both my strengths and my fragile places.

May God draw him closer to you with each passing day. :)
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The same to you.
 
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I suppose those are the ones that said no. Then try another one. Sure there must be none you are not intersted in. Oh wait you do the same thing. Why I had an atheist was because those lovely christian men thought I wasn't good enough with their demand lists. Well let them. What do I care?
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If it were only as you say it be easier. I do not do the same thing, though indeed many men do. I'm a different sort of guy. I love even those that stomp on my heart to pieces.

Told you they don't like what Paul said, and yet, it is too true. I find that is usually how it goes, people don't like to hear the truth whether it is good or bad.
 
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I don't think you have nearly the heart-insight you think you have, or else you would have never made the nasty blanket statement you did earlier. It's true that a lot of women lack character and wisdom, and that many who claim to be Christians are not. I'll also tell you that personally I know of a lot more young single Christian women who are honestly seeking and serving God than I do of young single Christian men.

And you're wrong.
A Christian man will love and desire me for both my strengths and my fragile places.

The same to you.
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Don't be offended just because it's true. Just be loved and learn to love and maybe come to greater understanding. Plenty of eligible Christian guys. I know a lot of people that say they're Christians, or on the topic of singles and dating, that say they want a Christian man/woman, but they're really like chaff blown in the wind.

Lol and so I am right. Many men will love you for your strength, but the Christian man will love you for your fragility.

Don't be offended that you are a delicate flower lady crosstweed.

Lol and no thanks on the same to you snark, lol I'm not interested in finding a Christian man and God all ready knows that :p lol.
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
Told you they don't like what Paul said, and yet, it is too true. I find that is usually how it goes, people don't like to hear the truth whether it is good or bad.
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I think I'm completely missing what you're saying Paul said.

That, or you never said what you say Paul said.
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
If it were only as you say it be easier. I do not do the same thing, though indeed many men do. I'm a different sort of guy. I love even those that stomp on my heart to pieces.

Told you they don't like what Paul said, and yet, it is too true. I find that is usually how it goes, people don't like to hear the truth whether it is good or bad.
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Oh okay, well in general people are not attracted to real kind people, just look at God. Most prefer the devil over Him. But there must be someone. Don't give up too guick. If the whole world says no and Mrs. Right says yes, what else do you want?
 
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I think I'm completely missing what you're saying Paul said.

That, or you never said what you say Paul said.
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This is many of your so-called Christian women. Don't be like them lady crosstweed, you're too funny and smart.

2 Timothy 3:6

[SUP]6 [/SUP]For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,


Be loved instead and maybe reconsider some Christian guys. Just because they're nice and polite and seem desperate in the eyes of the world these women really should not mock them considering how these women really are. That's how the stupid women end up the way they do. Oh well nothing can be done about it, they are prideful and think they are so strong and want to be so misunderstood. Therefore let them be a prey for the men they do want, let them get exactly what they want, exactly what they deserve.
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
This is many of your so-called Christian women. Don't be like them lady crosstweed, you're too funny and smart.

2 Timothy 3:6

[SUP]6 [/SUP]For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,


Be loved instead and maybe reconsider some Christian guys. Just because they're nice and polite and seem desperate in the eyes of the world these women really should not mock them considering how these women really are. That's how the stupid women end up the way they do. Oh well nothing can be done about it, they are prideful and think they are so strong and want to be so misunderstood. Therefore let them be a prey for the men they do want, let them get exactly what they want, exactly what they deserve.
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That doesn't really sound loving and forgiving tbh and crostweed is smart enough to not go for a creep.
 
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Take for instance Nu2see, who got banned. Some thought he was creepy. All the demands he had was that it must breathe. I'd have stalked him straight away if I lived in the States LOL.
 
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Oh okay, well in general people are not attracted to real kind people, just look at God. Most prefer the devil over Him. But there must be someone. Don't give up too guick. If the whole world says no and Mrs. Right says yes, what else do you want?
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Indeed lady coby, praise Jesus for your good understanding. :)

Don't think I have given up though. A Christian man wants to love a wife like God loves Israel, and let us remember Israel haughty too against the man that patiently loved her and tried to understand her and she despised him and rejected him. And yet he still loves her though she stomps on his heart and has him in open derision and mockery.

Isaiah 54:6-8

[SUP]6 [/SUP]For the Lord hath called thee as a woman forsaken and grieved in spirit, and a wife of youth, when thou wast refused, saith thy God.
[SUP]7 [/SUP]For a small moment have I forsaken thee; but with great mercies will I gather thee.
[SUP]8 [/SUP]In a little wrath I hid my face from thee for a moment; but with everlasting kindness will I have mercy on thee, saith the Lord thy Redeemer.
 
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