What does the Bible say about homosexuality...

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AuntieAnt

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That "plumbing" analogy honestly IS one of the "proof" objections presented by many Fundamentalists.

I agree with you wholeheartedly Willie. :eek: I was just being a goof because I don't have anything worthwhile to add. I'm actually reading along and trying to learn & understand.
 
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I'm jumping in.

Before I give my perspective, let me share a few things I believe, so that there's no doubt:

1. Any and all sin is detestable in God's sight
2. Even one sin is enough to separate us from God (without Christ)
3. Breaking just one of God's given laws is the same as breaking all of them (cf. James 2)
4. Certain sins in Scripture are called abominations.

Now with that out of the way, here's my take on the apparent selective outrage by some Christians against homosexuality versus other types of sins:

It was mentioned upthread about how there seems to be a dissonance between protesting gay marriage and protesting divorce. It can be safely argued that we as Christians have been, in a sense, forced to accept divorce as normal and no big deal. It is so commonplace that we don't really express much public outrage against it. The difference with homosexuality is that one can be possibly charged with a hate crime and/or sued just for speaking out against it, either verbally or by actions. That is not the case with divorce really, or most other types of sin for that matter. People who are merely divorced cannot use existing anti-discrimination laws as leverage to get what they want or to justify their lifestyles. We don't have things such as "divorce pride" parades, promoting and celebrating divorced people as a way of showing "diversity" or "corporate responsibility" or similar things.

That's why there is a lot of pushback from the Christian community with regard to homosexuality. And it does often come across as selective outrage, to the near exclusion of other sins.

It is true that an unsaved person is just as condemned for lying only one time as he/she would be for being a practicing homosexual. It is also true that Christ is willing to forgive both types of sin if the offender truly wants Him to be his/her Savior.

That being said, although there might be others, I can't think of a sinful practice besides homosexuality that is being pushed down the throats of people so vehemently.

I'm sure that the early Christians spoke out against certain practices but were silent on others. Probably because they were put in positions where they were forced to accept or even participate in them under threat of some serious consequence, death in a lot of cases.

That's why I believe many Christians come across as being hypocritical with homosexuality as opposed to other sins.
Agreeing completely with all you said. (
That doesn't happen often with me.)

But I've bolded a paragraph of what you said to give you other practices that have also been shoved down our throat:
-- shacking up.
-- abortion.
-- legalizing marijuana.
-- secular humanism.
-- Blacks/African Americans can't help themselves so they have to be taken care of (that started with LBJ, so many probably don't even remember that one anymore), given special rights, and now? Now if they do crimes the police must no longer do anything about it. (I have never understood why that doesn't royally tick off the majority of the black community.)
-- Women must be allowed to do whatever men do. (There's a reason women shouldn't become firefighters. Firefighters can get 200-pound unconscious people out of a burning building. Most women cannot. There's a reason women aren't in the frontline in wars -- most of us can't carry 100 pounds of backpack for 20 mile marches to battle. Unfortunately, battles tend to require long marches to get to and then the right equipment to fight them.)
-- no such thing as Islamic terrorists.
-- no such thing as illegal aliens.
-- Oxycodone is simply evil with no benefits to anyone.
-- Any reasonable person knows evolution is right.


And, coming down the pike -- the next thing that will be shoved down our throats because after accepting all the baloney served up for the last several shoved-down-our-throats ideas with the exact same arguments, there's no way anyone can say this isn't reasonable too --
-- pedophilia is natural. (Copy/paste that into a search engine and you get lots of proof.) The name of the organization promoting that is NA-MBLA. (Hyphen added specifically so I don't contribute to their SEO efforts, since this is a public site.)

We have reason to backlash, but we have reason to backlash over many things. This is simply sin de jour. Not many dare to mention more of the list because then we're called racists, prejudice, ignorant, bigots, etc. Worse yet, saying it too loud can cause injury and death.
 

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You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination. Lev 18:22 RSV

I don't think the Vatican actually condoned it. The pope just neglected to let the world know it's a sin, when he had the opportunity. I thought it was a poor choice on his part, since homosexuality, and the world's acceptance of it, seems to be increasing by leaps and bounds.
Well, perhaps he believes it's not a sin, just an abomination?:rolleyes:

Willie.... he really said "what say ye?" .... man, I'd have been rolling on the floor, tears in my eyes... we NEVER have that kind of fun in my church.... LOL
 
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Yes and it's bad that they force you to accept it, but I do understand it. They may not have the right to marry, but the people that remarried while it was adultery were never treated as second class citizens or had hate talk, so they didn't have to fight for their 'rights'. But it's bad.
Whoa! Homosexuals can't marry in your country? And I always thought the US was 20 years behind the humanism of Europe. By judicial decree (not vote), same-sex marriages are legal in the States. Most of the states, not all. All should take 1-2 more years. We flipped so hard and so quick on this I thought the world heard that sound.
 
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I agree with you wholeheartedly Willie. :eek: I was just being a goof because I don't have anything worthwhile to add. I'm actually reading along and trying to learn & understand.
Well, I guess I have to tread a little more softly in this area. I think you already know that this is the kind of "rather graphic" situation I dealt with for 24 years with convicted sex offenders, and those awaiting trial. So, sometimes I forget it can be a bit of a taboo subject to even THINK some thoughts for a lot of people.
 
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Whoa,whoa,whoa there sister!! The power to save and change is not in the church. People can't do anything but share the truth of the gospel,only God changes the heart. If the people wanted to truly change they would have. I've cried out to God too and He said "but you're still holding on to that bad thing!" I didn't want to let go. Until I made up my mind God couldn't force me to change. When a person truly wants to change they will. You cannot blame the church for that.
What became of John 3:19-20? Did that just disappear as the reaction of everyone to God's power because we never want to change? Or we just least wicked than others?

19 And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. 20 For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed.
 

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I recently attend a symposium during which the Homosexual subject was brought up. One vehement objector addressed the relativity of the individual esoteric "plumbing" as an obvious reason that it was wrong. To which the speaker asked: "How say ye of Fellatio?"

Yes, we certainly do have problems when someone brings it too close to our own personal preferences.
That is a hard one. I have had that discussion with Christians over the years. But one is specifically spoken of as sin in the bible, one is not. From a sanitary standpoint, the chance of disease increases with it, also with a man and woman doing what gay's do. I don't know if that is Gods way of making a statement about it...
 
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Whoa! Homosexuals can't marry in your country? And I always thought the US was 20 years behind the humanism of Europe. By judicial decree (not vote), same-sex marriages are legal in the States. Most of the states, not all. All should take 1-2 more years. We flipped so hard and so quick on this I thought the world heard that sound.
No I mean he's not a protester.
It's legal here since 2001 and marijuana for decades.
 
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Well, perhaps he believes it's not a sin, just an abomination?:rolleyes:

Willie.... he really said "what say ye?" .... man, I'd have been rolling on the floor, tears in my eyes... we NEVER have that kind of fun in my church.... LOL
This was at a Panera's, but we have the same kind of fun at our church, too. I'll send you the link to our audio tapes if you like. A lot of people here would never return a second time to one of our services... that is if they even stayed all the way through the first one they came to.
 
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That is a hard one. I have had that discussion with Christians over the years. But one is specifically spoken of as sin in the bible, one is not. From a sanitary standpoint, the chance of disease increases with it, also with a man and woman doing what gay's do. I don't know if that is Gods way of making a statement about it...
Well, "F" & "C" are quite common in almost all marriages, so it is difficult to use some arguments. Although I still think you should look for a mate who is not built like you are.
 
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Well, I guess I have to tread a little more softly in this area. I think you already know that this is the kind of "rather graphic" situation I dealt with for 24 years with convicted sex offenders, and those awaiting trial. So, sometimes I forget it can be a bit of a taboo subject to even THINK some thoughts for a lot of people.
Yes, I did remember that, Willie. I truly respect your work and dedication in that area. I've counseled juveniles on probation for various violent crimes including sexual assault so it's not a shock to me at all. As I said, I was making light of the situation cuz it looked like it was getting heated in here. It's all good. :)
 
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Yikes! I believe you're right, brother PeacefulWarrior. According to my signature below, I have no business being here. Thank you for the heads-up. ;)

Who taught that poor car not to be a cat? Yeesh! Any self-respecting cat would tear the trainer up before going 1 second on that ball. lol
 
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Who taught that poor car not to be a cat? Yeesh! Any self-respecting cat would tear the trainer up before going 1 second on that ball. lol
With dogs, it's all about the food. May be the same with cats?
 
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Who taught that poor car not to be a cat? Yeesh! Any self-respecting cat would tear the trainer up before going 1 second on that ball. lol
With dogs, it's all about the food. May be the same with cats?

I train cats using treats. I just babysat a cat last week and they couldn't get him used to his carrier. By the time he was returned home, he was going in & out of the carrier like it was a fun house. LOL

 
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Here's the kitty going into his carrier on his own with no fear. :)

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The issue with the church is we have compensated the homosexual while suggesting it is love of God doing so. That is wrong.
This is the absolute truth of the matter.
 
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When It comes to GOD,Is one sin worst than others?

When It comes to man,Is one sin worst than others?
Jesus answered, "You would have no power over me if it were not given to you from above. Therefore the one who handed me over to you is guilty of a greater sin." John 19:11
The law was still In effect until JESUS finished the work on the cross

Sounds like If you were answering the question,your answer would be

When It comes to GOD,Is one sin worst than others?YES

GOD said,If you break the law at any point you have offended It all.
Would you agree that,thats true.

If you do then we both know that scripture should interpret scripture and with that being said GOD Is not the author of confusion.
 
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that is a very interesting statement: " Are we spirit led" " or are we fulfilling our flesh while shoving bible verses down their throats"?

I guess the question that comes to mind is would the Spirit lead us to accept a sin or lead us contrary to the the bible says about this sin or any other for that matter? If one tells a person that Homosexuality is sin and not approved by God, are we not to show them in the Bible where it is said? surely one would not agree it is wrong because we said it is? The word of God is what we approach the issue with in Love.
I do not want you to answer the following question out loud. I just want you to think of the answer you'd give when asked.

What was your great sin area before Jesus saved you?

Okay, now this following question, I would like you to answer out loud.

Were you unaware of the guilt of that sin when God did save you?

There always seems to be this underlying current that we have to scold people about their sin first before telling them the gospels.

At one point in time, when I was backslidden (and backslidden getting high all the time, since sexual sin wasn't a sin I had until later in life), I became friendly with the vast majority of lesbians in the homosexual community of a fairly large university town. They knew I had no interest in homosexuality, but I liked a few of them as people. We were good friends.

And not one of us was missing what we were doing was sin. (We partied a lot together. I merely left when the party evolved into something else from lack of interest.)

Everyone talks about "we need to tell them the truth!" Actually, now that I rediscovered where Richard intended this to go from his very first post, that's the whole of the message! And it's really not the truth. It's "You're so much wronger than I ever have been, so let me beat you up about that and feel a bit more righteous about myself."

I've never met anyone who didn't know the truth of their sin area without needing to get beat over the head with it. I've never met a homosexual who couldn't answer Richard's first question n both the OT and the NT before a heterosexual Bible-verse-memorizing Christian could answer the question. They know it! They really really know it as much as we all knew what sin area we were caught in.

The answer isn't to beat them over the head to get "the truth." The answer is Jesus' saving grace. That's the part missing most the time, because once you beat someone over the head, you've also made them hit back or run away to miss the rest.

And might as well have that reaction, because the rest wasn't going to be friendly, once more loving, anyway.