A helper fit for me?. -Gen.2:18

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coby2

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#21
O come on people!
Children love to play, and they play without getting a reward or money for it.
Their playing is hard work & sacrifice too, they give all of their might & heart & energy to the game,
And Jesus called us to be like them.

I think it's really lame to stay single when you can get married & have dominion over the earth.
God made all these things for us. Why all these frightened people??
One of these days I'm gonna pluck one from the street.
 

tourist

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You want a wife that wants world dominion? that will be a interesting marriage for sure

are you ready to say yes Ma'am to your wife every day?
A simple "yes dear" will probably suffice. Better have a smile on your face when you say it too.
 
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Levan

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#23
Christians should mock all these „impotent tendencies“ of living in a virtual world, without real encounter of life, rather defending them.
Just read your Bible, it's full of wild stories of great people.
Denying to have dominion over the earth & live a living life, must be a blasphemous to God, our creator.
Y'know what is his opinion on hidden talents, right??
 
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Deetermined

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#24
Hello there!
I've been in 4 different relationships up until now and non of them has satisfied my soul.
I think Jesus alone is fit.. for us. The real helper.
And we're just being made into his likeness. Not ready yet. The 7th day is yet to come, where everything is very good!
'Cause we aren't even good, right??
The problem is that you're 23 and inpatient. I remember those days. God is doing you a favor, even if you don't want to hear it. With age comes discernment and wisdom on who/what your life should be like in order to make it more pleasing to yourself and to God. Trust me when I say that your age will most likely keep you from seeing the qualities in a person that will make for a lasting and fulfilling relationship. I know from experience and the wait is more than worth it, although it can be very hard.
 
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Levan

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I don't see a problem here. Now I know that human-partners aren't supposed to be satisfying to our souls completely. Now i know that the marriage is just a sign till the substance appears. And because i see this, i can freely get a wife for me, who also doesn't believe in perfect human love.
 
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Levan

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#27
Wow. Very cute picture : dd
 
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Deetermined

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I don't see a problem here. Now I know that human-partners aren't supposed to be satisfying to our souls completely. Now i know that the marriage is just a sign till the substance appears. And because i see this, i can freely get a wife for me, who also doesn't believe in perfect human love.
In your rush to be married, I advise you against settling for less than what a true marriage should be. I am completely satisfied in my marriage to the point of thanking God for my partner each and every day. Love, the way it was meant to be, is worth waiting for, but it takes God's involvement. Don't leave God out of this very important decision making process and make sure that he comes first to both you and your partner. Let him guide you, don't make any irrational decisions on your own.
 
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Levan

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#29
Thank you.
Yea, probably it will be hard for me to find a person who won't have a vain expectation of unfailing love from me, forgettin that human beings aren't capable of that, yet
 
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Deetermined

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#30
One of the biggest problems facing people today is a sense of inferiority and lack of self worth that brings on all kinds of other and bigger problems. Emotional neediness can get ugly, which is one of the reasons we need God to begin with. If you and your partner both have God to make you feel secure, it goes a long way towards warding off unnecessary relationship or life drama.
 

Tinkerbell725

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One of the biggest problems facing people today is a sense of inferiority and lack of self worth that brings on all kinds of other and bigger problems. Emotional neediness can get ugly, which is one of the reasons we need God to begin with. If you and your partner both have God to make you feel secure, it goes a long way towards warding off unnecessary relationship or life drama.
A little drama is also necessary. God gave us emotional needs to be fulfilled by the people in our lives. Without it relationships would be lifeless and boring. Being secure with God does not change or remove our nature as emotional beings. It makes us wiser in handling our emotions through correct thinking and Godly wisdom.
 
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coby2

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#32
A little drama is also necessary. God gave us emotional needs to be fulfilled by the people in our lives. Without it relationships would be lifeless and boring. Being secure with God does not change or remove our nature as emotional beings. It makes us wiser in handling our emotions through correct thinking and Godly wisdom.
Yes, people miss out on a lot because it has to be stable and perfect.
 
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coby2

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#33
If Adam wanted a drama free life he'd better have stayed alone. He'd have never died and still live in the garden with his dog.
 
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Deetermined

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#34
The keyword in my post was "unnecessary" relationship and life drama. Those who thrive on drama and chaos will never be happy.
 
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coby2

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The keyword in my post was "unnecessary" relationship and life drama. Those who thrive on drama and chaos will never be happy.
That drama is necessary to get whole and it changes you for the better. Not always, some is really unnecessary, then God says no and you don't listen, but I think a lot of people say no if God has an emotionally needy, not healed up or aggressive person for them with huge problems. Glad I never heard those advices and didn't miss out on it.
 

Tinkerbell725

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The keyword in my post was "unnecessary" relationship and life drama. Those who thrive on drama and chaos will never be happy.
Yeah I'm done chasing happiness because its fleeting. I prefer joy which is more permanent and since God is the source of it, even in the midst of life's drama I am still joyful.
 
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Deetermined

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#37
I'm sorry that you're not capable of having both happiness and joy.
 
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coby2

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#38
I'm sorry that you're not capable of having both happiness and joy.
I have both. It's not dependant on people or circumstances. Paul was happy in prison. Lol but I'm not gonna deliberately find a prison of a relationship again. Not that stupid.
 

Tinkerbell725

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I'm sorry that you're not capable of having both happiness and joy.
I am capable. My point is the endless chase for hapiness is like chasing the wind. Its pointless. Joy is not something you chase. It is already in you wether you get what you want or not.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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You want to rule the world?

Remember what Jesus said you have to do to be the first?