NO ONE has ever come to Christ ..unless they have first seen Him as a Savior for their sins. To have the idea that you never make anyone feel guilty or convicted about their sins, is completely unbiblical.
No dear brother, Jesus said he didn't come to judge, but to save. He said our own heart already condemns us. He delivers us from shame & humiliation & guilt. His love changes people, not condemnation. Threats of hellfire may keep people from doing a certain thing, but it won't change their heart. It will only keep them in fear.
The reason the world is more & more blind to Christ is because of folks representing him as an angry, horrid tyrant who expects people to crawl to him in fear. Remember the prodigal son crawling back saying he would ask his father if he could be a servant? His father didn't entertain that nonsense. He told the servants to put shoes on his son's feet and a royal robe. His son was not a servant. That son NEVER lost his inheritance. He only lost SIGHT of it.
There is only ONE WAY people will turn from selfishness & foolish behavior, when they see US walking in liberty & love & joy & peace. When they see the fruit of the Spirit in US, they will get hungry for God. They will NEVER get hungry for salvation if it looks like God is Dungeon Master and we are his obedient slaves. YUCK!!!
We have to be the change we want to see in the world. And we all have to remind each other of that in love. I know I sure need reminding.