No everyone can judge in that way, got questions explained the difference between right and wrong judging. If I say: don't judge, I mean don't judge someone's heart, not that you may not say that it's sin or that the person lives in sin, just not harsh and unforgiving and it may even be meant well and come from a good heart, but the guy that spoke to me who thought I was a lesbian, I thought he was a hateful bigot the way he spoke, but he was not. If I thought that, a gay or lesbian may think that too. He could change his approach and talk less harsh.
God gave us a brain for a reason. We can have discernment and wisdom about situations and people. If we know or strongly suspect a pastor is stealing, are we still going to donate? We are not judging his salvation because people can change though Christ, the only eternal change He is, but we can say, if we know for sure, that he is stealing if he is.
In fact a person can change on their deathbed, so how can we judge or predict who is going to heaven or hell?
Also judging peoples motivations can be tricky at times. I find more sure footing to say he said this or that, or did this or that.
A man who is continually having sex with another man, or other man is engaged in sexual immorality of the homosexual nature, in my view.
A lot of us here might say it is because he has a lust for perversion, and I suppose that would be true on some level with most, if not all of them?
But how about the guy whose dad did that to him as a boy? My heart goes out to that boy, now a man. And then maybe some well meaning Christian comes along and wants to guilt this person, or continually tell him he is in sin?
We are all individuals. I can't recall one place in the bible where it lumps homosexuals as group using that word, or lesbians, or men and woman who practice perverse sexual acts.
God sees us as individual people who need to be viewed as such.
Taking a position of viewing all homosexuals together as a group of sinners in the minds eye rather then as individual people is probably counter to how God views them, and is a step toward dehumanizing them.
It is an act of sexual immorality. An act, not a person. If they decide to identify themselves like that, so be it. That is just them falling into the devils trap. We should not do that when speaking to them bout sin, I don't think.
That is where the Holy Spirit comes in. If we pray, and listen also, for Gods voice, He instructs us on when to speak, when to be quiet. And sometimes even what words to use and not use.
It always comes back to Christ. Our relationship with Him is the key to everything.
God forgive the times I don't pray enough and lose that sensitivity.
Oh Jesus, help us all.