You do well in trying to answer the question that i presented. Most seem to assume all manner of things against me because i merely asked the question.
You say Jesus changed it, how so?
A controlling woman is wrong and the N.T. also says she has to obey,
Careful, that sounds like the TRUTH of Scriptures, and you are now opening yourself up to be attacked by those who do not believe Scriptures to be correct. Just warning you. If i say Scriptures says she has to obey, i would be stoned and cast down the hillside for saying what Scriptures plainly teach. But hey, its the generation we live in.
but it's not a curse or a punishment anymore.
True, it is not, nor ever was a curse, but it was a punishment given to Eve for disobeying God. In the same verse it states child birth would be painful. This is a punishment given to women because Eve disobeyed God. Labor pain has not ceased. So that part of the punishment still continues to this very day, that is evident, and surely no one will argue with that (who am i kidding, i know this generation) Anyway when God was giving out the punishments to man and woman. This is what God said to the woman. Please NOTE, it is not what i am saying, so please don't attack me because i am quoting the Scriptures.
Gen_3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
The whole reason i started this post, was not to attack women, was not to belittle women, it was not to start a debate about how wives are to treat their husbands. i was asking when did the last part of the punishment God gave to the woman ended? That is my question. If you want to discuss if what the word RULE means, then start a thread about that. If you want to discuss if a woman should be Ruled over by her husband, start a thread about that. And because i merely asked this question DON'T ASSUME you know what i think or believe, or ASSUME the reason i have asked this question. This thread presented a question concerning the punishment that God DID give the woman, and when did it end? If you think you know the answer, then answer it. If you don't know the answer, then why are you responding with posts that is irrelevant to the OP and the question that was asked?
It can be annoying if the guy is not saved and bossy, but if she does that and he doesn't leave he gets saved. She lays her life for him down then out of love.
So what you are saying, is she needs to respond based on what he does or doesn't do, if he is Saved or not Saved. How you act toward your husband should be solely on what God wants you to do, regardless what your husband is doing or not doing. Scriptures teach (NOT I) that women are to obey their husbands. It does not say women are to obey their husband if they ______________________.
A controlling man is the same as a controlling woman. It's a demon of control that's in charge. Not really the christian marriage God wants.
Tell me which of these two women is God pleased with.
A woman is married to a controlling husband, so she does not obey him like the Word says to because he is controlling, unsaved, and she argues with him, and fights with him constantly.
or
A woman is married to a controlling husband, but she obey him because that is what God told her to do in His Word. So even though he is controlling, unsaved, she obeys him, NOT to please her husband, but to please God.
Which of these two women does God smile down upon and will Bless abundantly?
It is not about what your husband is doing or not doing, You should live by the Bible because that is what God says to do. PERIOD. Woe to this generation, they have an excuse for everything under the sun.
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