Many folks are looking for a 'mate'. Best things to do to facilitate that? Deal with your own issues (we all have them), seek God's guidance, rest patiently in Him, and 'get out there'. Go have some fun (I mean that in the clean, healthy, safe sense) and meet some gals. Don't be overly concerned about meeting 'the one'; rather, get to know a few gals, and in the process, you will learn much about your own preferences and desires.