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I think there is an idealism in the Christian community that we all just need to wait because that perfect person is out there. Just wait on God, etc. Among Christians, there is abuse, infidelity, sin, divorce. Marriage takes a whole lot of work. And if you marry, they will not be perfect. We are all single, because we haven't found the person we connect in that way with yet. Plain and simple. We can have some influence in that (if we choose to stay home all time rather then meet new people, or if we have over the top expectations, it reduces our chances). God won't Fed-ex your spouse to your door. Put as much faith as you want in God finding your match, it's my opinion, we give too much to God and don't take enough responsibility for our own choices in life.
I am single because I haven't found someone I connected with. I have a bad habit of picking guys who are not good to me, even though they are Christians. I rather be alone than in a relationship that isn't healthy.
I am single because I haven't found someone I connected with. I have a bad habit of picking guys who are not good to me, even though they are Christians. I rather be alone than in a relationship that isn't healthy.
Perhaps there's a nice alien guy from Planet Zworpx who's just my type. 
I can dream, can't I? rofl!!
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I can dream, can't I? rofl!!View attachment 157096
"We actually divorced once over the airplane/treadmill argument."
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Ahhhh my fave question people love to ask me at the age of 48.
Them: Why are you single
Me: If I knew that I would not be single
Them: Why have you not been married
Me: Cause I never have been asked
Them: Why you never have had kids
Me: Cause I never have met someone who I wanted to have kids with plus I might not be able to have them. (this is where the mumble oh sorry and then stop the stupid why questions).
Its like if being older never married, never had kids and still single is like some horrible thing.
I say its all in Gods time.
Them: Why are you single
Me: If I knew that I would not be single
Them: Why have you not been married
Me: Cause I never have been asked
Them: Why you never have had kids
Me: Cause I never have met someone who I wanted to have kids with plus I might not be able to have them. (this is where the mumble oh sorry and then stop the stupid why questions).
Its like if being older never married, never had kids and still single is like some horrible thing.
I say its all in Gods time.
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