That is sooo sweeet!
Sorry. Girly moment.
When I think back to that time it was sweet. At the time though I thought he didn't like me as a person. I was never sure what I did to him, obviously nothing, but at the time I didn't understand that.
We had so many mutual friend's in common that when he was home from college we'd often see each other. One time my friend had a surprise birthday party for her now ex husband. I went by myself and just before I left to go to the party I got a phone call that was a wrong number and when I told the man on the phone it was the wrong number he asked, well hey what are you doing tonight? I hung up on him. It was funny but at the time I was so tired of men and their games. The weekend before my now ex boyfriend had come to visit me, he lived two hours away. We were supposed to celebrate his birthday, instead he came up to break up with me, so I was not in the mood for any type of interaction with any man.
So I park my tiny little Hundai to go into this party. I was relieved to see my friend Mike and I noticed he was with his friend who I freaked out and who's now my Husband Dave. So I'm walking towards them and hear my now husband say, I didn't know she was coming. I wanted to punch him in the face, I didn't because I don't punch people. So I Say, Hi guy's, nice to see you. I was so glad to see Mike because he is like a brother to me and he is normal. So I tell them about the guy calling and they crack up hysterically. Then they both say, ha ha we should try that, idiots. So we go into this party and I make myself scarce, because men annoyed me. So I'm walking to the bathroom and bump into an ex ex boyfriend who wasn't very nice and actually broke up with me. So he's acting like this excited puppy when he sees me and I'm thinking, oh boy isn't this the icing on the cake.
First I get dumped by someone I was in love with, then I get a phone call from some weirdo looking for a date, then I come to this party and see a friend and a friend of a friend and the friend of the friend hates me and says, I didn't know she was going to be here. Then I walk to the bathroom and on the way I run into crazy man who I thought was completely out of my life and he wants to talk to me. So crazy man tells me that he was so happy to see me and he's really like to talk and that he missed me. So I excuse myself from that whole thing and go back into the private party room and try to find a seat. So okay only seat available is across from now husband who I thought hated me and next to this very cute guy who I kind of liked. So sitting there trying not to talk to now husband because I thought he hated me. Talking to cute guy I'm sitting next to. Just general chit chat, nothing major. Then cute guy asks if I want to go rollerblading with him tomorrow? Sure! We didn't end up going, which was okay because cute guy and I weren't really a good match. So dreadful party is over and I'm leaving trying to divert disaster and go home and curl up in a ball and cry. So on the way out, the ex ex boyfriend sees me, oh I thought you left, at that moment I wished I was home curling up in a ball and crying, but idiot me goes and gets tea with the ex ex boyfriend because I was vunarable nieve and immature. Ex ex poured his heart out to me. This is the second chance I gave him. Disaster not diverted, I end up dating ex ex again and of course he acts like a creep and we break up.
The moral of this long drawn out story is, if my Husband Dave had just talked to me like a normal human being instead of treating me like I was a person with the plague who would infect him if he came to close, none of that other crap would've happened and we could have lived happily ever after. I've told him this and he asks how I know it would've turned out that way? I just know and I'm the wife and I'm right.