so I need advice on what to do in this situation. You see my sister has been dating this buddy of mine James for four years but she has been wanting to break it off for a while now yet never does I think she still has feelings for James. I also have another close friend who lives with me and my sister has been coming over for a few days and he and her get along great. But she came to me yesterday and told me she cheated on James with my friend and is thinking of leaving James for him but knowing her she isn't ready to leave James.
Now in this situation I have contemplated on what to do about this, I feel James deserves to know but at the same time not only do I know the chaos it would bring if I tell him but also I don't know if it's my place to tell him. If I go the latter route and let things happen and if he finds out and asks me if I knew I will be honest and tell him yes but on the other hand if I tell him honestly nothing good will come of it both my sister and James are very violent people.
But I want to do what is right the issue is I am not sure what it right
Now in this situation I have contemplated on what to do about this, I feel James deserves to know but at the same time not only do I know the chaos it would bring if I tell him but also I don't know if it's my place to tell him. If I go the latter route and let things happen and if he finds out and asks me if I knew I will be honest and tell him yes but on the other hand if I tell him honestly nothing good will come of it both my sister and James are very violent people.
But I want to do what is right the issue is I am not sure what it right