I am starting to think that my personality is not that attractive...
I sometimes do not get jokes and sometimes can cross boarders, like asking too many questions.
I think it is because I love to learn and I love to communicate with people. I love to see how they became the people they are today.
I have been having trouble with some of the girls I room with in my college dormitory.
One of them used to be my roommate and she will literally just not talk to me. I have no idea why, but I get these little subliminal hints in class and such. (small college, so she is forced to see me)
For example, in class today our professor said "there are only eight of you in here and you all get along..." well I looked over and the two girls I dorm with were snickering.
Now this one girl that used to room with us got married and she has seen first hand the way both of these girls can act and she feels the same way, she doesn't know what she did or why they do not like her.
I have another friend that says she gets the same "vibes" from these specific two girls and that they ignore her for no apparent reason.
Apparently now they are getting along though, so I am curious if I just have one of those personalities that people do not enjoy having around?
I know most of you do not know me well enough to know if this is the case, but what causes a person to completely ignore someone for no reason at all?
I usually ignore it, but I really think I am just a dis-likeable person because I see it happening in other acquaintance-based friendships.
Is this a Christian thing?
It really bothers me, and it's stupid that I let it bother me, but I want to know what I am doing wrong.
"just ask her" yeah believe me I have tried lol it's hard to talk to someone who avoids you and everyone you talk to.
Just a side note to show what exactly is happening: one day this girl was talking to the professor and the professor stopped talking and I said "hey ... (her name) what was question five?" she acted like she did not hear me. I said it again, no response. I was closer to her than the professor...
Or one class literally it is just me and her and the professor. She will not even look at me. It's like I'm such a disgusting person she cannot even bare to see. If I make a comment about the assignment to the professor, the only way she will talk to me is indirectly by saying to the professor "yes it is on the syllabus"
lemme elaborate..
Me: Professor what day is such and such due?"
Professor: "It's on the 19th"
Her: "Yes because it's on the syllabus"
I will only receive indirect comments like that.. or am I just crazy?
I sometimes do not get jokes and sometimes can cross boarders, like asking too many questions.
I think it is because I love to learn and I love to communicate with people. I love to see how they became the people they are today.
I have been having trouble with some of the girls I room with in my college dormitory.
One of them used to be my roommate and she will literally just not talk to me. I have no idea why, but I get these little subliminal hints in class and such. (small college, so she is forced to see me)
For example, in class today our professor said "there are only eight of you in here and you all get along..." well I looked over and the two girls I dorm with were snickering.
Now this one girl that used to room with us got married and she has seen first hand the way both of these girls can act and she feels the same way, she doesn't know what she did or why they do not like her.
I have another friend that says she gets the same "vibes" from these specific two girls and that they ignore her for no apparent reason.
Apparently now they are getting along though, so I am curious if I just have one of those personalities that people do not enjoy having around?
I know most of you do not know me well enough to know if this is the case, but what causes a person to completely ignore someone for no reason at all?
I usually ignore it, but I really think I am just a dis-likeable person because I see it happening in other acquaintance-based friendships.
Is this a Christian thing?
It really bothers me, and it's stupid that I let it bother me, but I want to know what I am doing wrong.
"just ask her" yeah believe me I have tried lol it's hard to talk to someone who avoids you and everyone you talk to.
Just a side note to show what exactly is happening: one day this girl was talking to the professor and the professor stopped talking and I said "hey ... (her name) what was question five?" she acted like she did not hear me. I said it again, no response. I was closer to her than the professor...
Or one class literally it is just me and her and the professor. She will not even look at me. It's like I'm such a disgusting person she cannot even bare to see. If I make a comment about the assignment to the professor, the only way she will talk to me is indirectly by saying to the professor "yes it is on the syllabus"
lemme elaborate..
Me: Professor what day is such and such due?"
Professor: "It's on the 19th"
Her: "Yes because it's on the syllabus"
I will only receive indirect comments like that.. or am I just crazy?