Would you rather we lie to them? Or tell them the truth? We COULD have told her that she'll never get a job, never get a house of their own, never do anything..But that would be a lie. You must be an EMT or cop or something, because you are wayyy too emotional right now. You're even more upset than the OP was. And if people can't take hearing the truth, which for this OP, is that she can't blame God for her hardships right now. It's not His fault, nor her fault either. It's just how life goes sometimes, ya gotta roll where the ball goes. As long as she keeps faith in God, he will bring her through this. And also, members here CAN read threads while they're not logged in. Maybe she did just that, and is thinking about all that's been said.