Thank you but to me what you just said shows me that i should just have fun and hang out with girls. Since I can repent later like everyone else.
Well thank you for your reply ^^ I am thankful. I'll keep thinking but my view towards sex is changing due to how most of society is. I'm almost at the point where I just feel like sex isn't really all that important. Afterall it's just sex right? What matters is that you too care for each other even though you have slept with several other people. The last shouldn't matter as long as you love each other now. Hmm I'll think about it. Maybe flings aren't so bad for now right? Take care and thank you for your time ^^ I do appreciate it. I think I'm not gonna overthink this whole virgin thing anymore.
The attitude of I can just repent later shows that the person espousing that idea doesn't know the first thing about repentance and what it means. Repentance is to change the way you look at things so you agree with God's view of it. It is not a sorry I broke the rules, or explaining to God why you just had to break the rules. And sure it's just sex, like an volcano is just a hole in the ground or starving to death is just a little hunger. You do not know the power of what you dismiss so lightly.
As for heaven, everyone sins and like they said in the posts. Sex and other sins are sins of the same so you sin daily either way. So having sex like people do is the same as other sins. I also agree with you. Anything that does happen won't be gods fault. I don't blame God for anything in my life since he doesn't usually interfere with life's. Bad things don't happen because he wants them and I consider it stupid to blame him. Things happen due to a cause and effect. Not because God thought it would be nice to punish. People punish themselves or humans cause harm to others. Not god. Thank you for your concern ^^ I won't go crazy and have flings left and right. Not even sure if I want a fling yet since thinking about it sounds like such a hassle. I'm really lazy .0.0 so I don't tend to do things that make me put so much effort. But if something ever presents itself and a fling or something is possible then I guess I'll see what I decide in the moment. I'm not gonna consider sex as anything else since it's just the bodies lust and chemicals which create those feelings. I'll look for someone along the way who I value and would die for but having sex I don't think I consider it sacred anymore. It's pointless to tell you the truth. Like someone said what she or I do in the past shouldn't matter in today's society since most don't care anyways. Even though most are supposed christians to begin with.
Biblically (and if you're not going to let your life and ideas be informed by the Bible don't you dare call yourself a Christian) sexual sin is singled out as distinct and a sin that you ... actually that verse is really good, I'm going to quote it in full:
Shun immorality and all sexual looseness [flee from impurity in thought, word, or deed]. Any other sin which a man commits is one outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. (1 Cor 6:18)
Also just because sin is forgivable does not mean it is not terrible. Sure you can be forgiven for having sex outside of marriage, and I could go murder someone and be forgiven for it. But ain't nobody gonna buy the idea that murdering other people isn't a big deal just because it can be forgiven.
You say it's just biochemistry. Again if you've been duped into viewing a human being as just one big ongoing chemical reaction then your view is also not Biblical. But if you really believe you're nothing more than one big chemical reaction, then everything is scientifically determined and there's no point or purpose or meaning to anything or choice. But here's some food for thought, what if the rise in mental health and emotional issues is related to our culture of sexual promiscuity? I don't think there's any proof and I don't know of any really solid studies, but what exactly is causing us to become more and more dysfunctional as human beings? And do you really want to gamble that you know better than God so that when God says don't you're sitting there saying "Why not? It won't hurt anything."
Honestly though, if these are the conclusions you are drawing after reading all the replies in this thread, you look like someone who only came here hoping to find a justification to do what he wanted to do. You're already enmeshed in a lot of unbiblical worldview points and I would strongly urge you that if you want to keep what faith you have, find a mentor. Otherwise I fear the lies of society will choke out what's left of God in you (like the weeds in the parable).
