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Hello everybody. I have been here for years..and i have only added two brothers on facebook, one man and one sister. Someone explain me: What's the mistery with facebook?? How many you have had on facebook?? Am i the only with bad luck here? I dont want to believe is because im latin.

That's it. Im not good making friends..:(.
 
Fromdomlove said:
Hello everybody. I have been here for years..and i have only added two brothers on facebook, one man and one sister. Someone explain me: What's the mistery with facebook?? How many you have had on facebook?? Am i the only with bad luck here? I dont want to believe is because im latin.

That's it. Im not good making friends..:(.
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Your about as good at making friends as I am. I don't have a Facebook account so I can't add you as a friend. I don't think your being Latin has anything to do with making friends. Try to be a more frequent poster here on CC. For being a member almost 4 years you have written virtually no posts. Let the members see who you really are and what you care about.
 
Thanks bro. But i have been writting a lot like never before.
 
​Best advice is if you're wanting new friends, be a friend to someone first.
 
You haven't added ME on facebook yet!

Wait... I don't have a facebook account. Uh, never mind. :D
 
I dont view fb as a place to meet people. I mostly meet people outside of fb, and eventually add them.

But if you want to add friends then join groups on topics you like. Give likes to pages on music you enjoy, hobbies, movies, etc... then be active in those pages.
 
So..you are saying im not good making friends..and i agree.
 
Well here's some words of wisdom from C. S. Lewis:

“The very condition of having Friends is that we should want something else besides Friends. Where the truthful answer to the question "Do you see the same truth?" would be "I see nothing and I don't care about the truth; I only want a Friend," no Friendship can arise - though Affection of course may. There would be nothing for the Friendship to be about; and Friendship must be about something, even if it were only an enthusiasm for dominoes or white mice. ..."

In other words as long as all any of us know about you is that you want friends and you want a girlfriend, there won't be much interest in being your friend. When we know what you are about, what matters to you, what you value, who you are on the inside, then some of us will be more likely disposed to want to get to know you better. But for now, you come across as the run of the mill newcomer who just came to talk about how much he doesn't like being single. And yes, creating the conditions for friendship to form takes time and investment.
 
Thanks for writting. I have always be aware that i would give that image. I knew all the time the risk. But i dont care, i put muy cards on the table..everybody knows what i want. At least, im being honest with my feeling and not playing..i mean..i dont want to be a hipocryte...i want to everybody to know...this is me and this what i want.
 
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