Hint, hint... 'No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up on the last day.'
Yes but this is not God choosing who will be and won't be saved before they are born. This drawing refers to the Gospel:
Joh 12:32 And I, if I be lifted up from the earth, will draw all men unto me.
The drawing is universal in application. As it applies to wherever the cross of Christ is preached. Not specific choice of one individual over another.
Yes you are the ones distorting His Words. That's why you can't interpret the bible without some of Calvins teachings or a Calvinists teachings beside you giving you a helping hand. I wonder if you lived before Calvin was born, who would you follow? Notice that Calvinism is a name of a man, followed by an ism. No one I know, including myself , who have studied the bible independently and without bias have come to a Calvinistic conclusion.
I notice the word "grace" in your nickname. Now grace means treating someone better than they deserve. That means that God must treat all sinners better than they deserve. Since all sinners deserve hellfire..then it means God must offer every sinner a chance to be saved from hellfire. If He doesn't, then He has no grace.
Tit 2:11 For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men,
There is a direct contradiction between the very definition of grace..and when a calvinist justifies God sending people to hell of no fault of their own just because "they deserve it". That's not grace at all.