No you didn't. He caused you too. Read Ephesians 2. You have an inability, by nature, to choose God. You submit to his calling because that is how he designed it. He opened your eyes. You didn't do it yourself.
The issue with Adam and Eve is that scripture hasn't revealed anything regarding the nature of their will. But the idea seems to be that they, although not yet in bondage to sin, still had the capacity to sin.
After the fall, all men are cursed and reckoned as dead, and dead men cannot bring themselves back to life. What if Jesus called Lazarus and Lazarus was like, nah, I'm good, think I'll stay here. Not possible. We see this theme of man being dead in sin and slaves to sin all over the bible and are given clear scriptures stating our inability to choose God in contrast with God's will and sovereign ability to choose.
Man in his inability rejects God, God in his goodness and wishing to make his mercy known chooses man out of his sin.
It seems to be that those who reject this teaching always appeal to emotion and the inevitable conclusion to all of their defenses is that it's unfair somehow, or that God owes us something. This simply isn't anywhere in the scripture.
I will concede to the fact that one doesn't have to believe in unconditional election to be elected however, so I hope we can agree to disagree on this since we both agree the Gospel is the means by which God saves and that works don't save us or keep us saved