If you don't have any advice to help me then please stop offering condemnation. I don't have to justify my remarriage to you. I was not a Christian when I married and divorced the first time. My God is a just and forgiving God.
You haven't repented of your sin (Heb 13:4).
Herodias was angered by the truth (Matt. 14:3–12) about her illegal marriage (Mark 6:17, 18), too. Try sinning more
so grace can abound (Ro 6:1).
Listen to the ear ticklers (Is 30:10, 2 Ti 4:3).
Show up at the Great White Throne without your husband and lecture God about what marriage was (Mt 19:6).