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Hello! I am a new member. I need opinions from other non-biased individuals (like family or friends). My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We have one toddler together. My husband has struggled with alcohol addiction and likes to hang out at bars until the wee hours of the following morning. Recently, I came home in the afternoon to find the back door of our house unlocked, music blaring, 2 empty cocktail glasses with olives in the bottom, and several empty liquor bottles outside by the pool. Perhaps the most alarming of everything was when I found a woman's string bikini hanging from my shower, still dripping, and my husband's shorts outside by the pool area, with his keys still in the pocket. The woman's purse and makeup were sitting on the couch. Nobody was home when I walked in. I called my husband to ask whose bikini was hanging from the shower, and he said he didn't know. When I asked again whose it was, he got mad, said "really?" and hung up on me. He didn't come home that night.
The following day, he explained that he had some employees over, but he didn't realize that the girl had hung her swimsuit up in the bathroom to dry. That's why he said he didn't know whose swimsuit it was. I had sent him a photo of the swimsuit, which he claims he didn't get until after he hung up on me.
I am losing sleep over this and it is just eating away at me constantly. I can't help but ask myself why only 2 cocktail glasses if there were multiple people over? And what kind of woman wears a string bikini to go swimming with her boss when his wife isn't home? What would the married man's motives be who would swim with a woman in a string bikini when his wife is not home? And why are his shorts outside with his keys? This was the middle of the afternoon on a weekday--why aren't they all working? The house was left not secured, as the back door was unlocked. I later did find his swim trunks in another bathroom, also wet. The whole thing was just very bizarre.
So, my gut feeling is that he was partying with some girl and I surprised them. He doesn't know my work schedule and didn't expect me to be home in the middle of the afternoon. They left in a hurry. That's really what it looks like. So, I'm interested to see what you all think. Women and wives, what would you think and how would you have reacted? My husband claims I am a crazy jealous and insecure wife--would you agree? Men and husbands, do you agree with him? What would you think his motives are, and do you buy the story he came up with? Please let me know what you think because the whole thing makes me feel sick.
The following day, he explained that he had some employees over, but he didn't realize that the girl had hung her swimsuit up in the bathroom to dry. That's why he said he didn't know whose swimsuit it was. I had sent him a photo of the swimsuit, which he claims he didn't get until after he hung up on me.
I am losing sleep over this and it is just eating away at me constantly. I can't help but ask myself why only 2 cocktail glasses if there were multiple people over? And what kind of woman wears a string bikini to go swimming with her boss when his wife isn't home? What would the married man's motives be who would swim with a woman in a string bikini when his wife is not home? And why are his shorts outside with his keys? This was the middle of the afternoon on a weekday--why aren't they all working? The house was left not secured, as the back door was unlocked. I later did find his swim trunks in another bathroom, also wet. The whole thing was just very bizarre.
So, my gut feeling is that he was partying with some girl and I surprised them. He doesn't know my work schedule and didn't expect me to be home in the middle of the afternoon. They left in a hurry. That's really what it looks like. So, I'm interested to see what you all think. Women and wives, what would you think and how would you have reacted? My husband claims I am a crazy jealous and insecure wife--would you agree? Men and husbands, do you agree with him? What would you think his motives are, and do you buy the story he came up with? Please let me know what you think because the whole thing makes me feel sick.
