Both.
He loved (chose) us first, chose the world excluding no one. Then we are free to love (choose) Him in reciprocation. Before I was married, I chose several girls, and dated them. Only one accepted me to marry. Her choice toward me, because of my choice toward her. Evidently my character drew her to me, but in the end it was still her choice. If she had refused, it isn't because I didn't want her, it would have still been her choice.
He loved (chose) us first, chose the world excluding no one. Then we are free to love (choose) Him in reciprocation. Before I was married, I chose several girls, and dated them. Only one accepted me to marry. Her choice toward me, because of my choice toward her. Evidently my character drew her to me, but in the end it was still her choice. If she had refused, it isn't because I didn't want her, it would have still been her choice.