Bingo!!
is that mean He force saved to believe in Himgo?
You seem to fail to recognize the true state the lost are in. As Paul wrote
And you were dead in your trespasses and sins.[Ephesians 2:1] The Greek word used for 'dead' is
nekros and it means...
3498 nekrós (an adjective, derived from
nekys,
"a corpse, a dead body") – dead; literally, "what lacks life"; dead; (figuratively)
not able to respond to impulses, or perform functions ("unable, ineffective, dead, powerless,"
L & N, 1, 74.28); unresponsive to life-giving influences (opportunities); inoperative to the things of God.
3498 /nekrós ("corpse-like") is used as a noun in certain contexts ("the dead"), especially when accompanied by the Greek definite article. The phrase,
ek nekron ("from the dead"),
lacks the Greek article to give the sense "from what is of death."
This is what God has to overcome in these ppl who are spiritually dead before they can even to begin to seek Him. The lost man is one who is devoid of God's Spirit and his heart hates Him, is His enemy. That's why we can read
For those who are according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.[Romans 8:5-8] Here are the two types of ppl in the world, the lost and the saved, the unregenerate and the regenerate. Those who are lost, those who unregenerate, have minds that are hostile towards God, its not subject to His laws, it is not able to submit itself to God and His laws, and they are in the flesh as lost, unregenerate ppl, and can not please Him. Remember, those who love Him have been(already done) born of Him.[1 John 4:7] The birth via the Spirit is what precludes any positive response for the lost person.
If so why not force every body to o so in the sake of love.
Because He deemed it necessary to choose a ppl to give to His Son to redeem from amongst the lost. In this election, He chose them, not because they were any less dead, their hearts not as hard as those who chose to leave in their fallen state, not because He look through the corridors of time to see who would have faith and choose them. He chose them because He is God, and as the Potter, He has rights to His clay.