We choose Jesus or Jesus choose us

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I think that with Paul we can see forcing in the beginning quite easily.

Of course that Paul was not forced to work for God all his life. As I said, he got a new heart by the grace of God.
No even from the beginning Jesus stopped and blinded Saul and then after being blinded he received a vision of a man named ananias coming to him and him receiving his sight through him,he was in town praying and he could have still sought to go against Jesus,the fact that he was blind does not mean he was "forced" to do anything,he was just "discomforted" after all a blind person can still operate the same as a person with sight,but he "chose" to wait and receive his sight and then "chose" to obey Jesus's command afterward.
 

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Amen Marano, Wonderful verses. We should NOT add anything to the ''finished'' work of JESUS for our salvation. He says that we have NOT chosen HIM but HE has chosen us!!! We are in depravity and cannot choose to put our trust IN HIM until HE "wakens'' us to our HUGE need of HIS work for us
 

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There are basically two schools of thought where the
motivating force behind our salvation is concerned.


One is that before God created the first man, He knew mankind would fall into sin and be lost. At that time He chose some of us to be saved by having His Son die for our sins. Those who believe this say He didn’t give us His reason for choosing some and not others. They say He did it because He is sovereign and it was His right to do so. Neither those He chose to save nor those He didn’t choose have any say in the matter. It was all decided by God and there’s nothing we can do about it.

The other school of thought begins the same way. Before He created the first man, God knew mankind would fall into sin and be lost. But then it differs, holding that God provided a means whereby mankind could choose to be saved. The remedy He provided, having His Son die for our sins, is the same. But as you can see, the application of the remedy is different. All who choose to do so can ask God to save them and if they believe His son died for their sins and rose again, He will do so.

So, either God knew we would sin, provided a remedy for our sins, and then applied that remedy to a sample of mankind that He selected. Or, God knew we would sin, provided a remedy for our sins, and then offered that remedy to everyone who chooses to accept it. What does the Bible say? Must God choose us to receive His remedy or can we make the choice to receive it ourselves?

First Things First

To give ourselves the best chance at finding the correct answer, let’s begin by reviewing some of the guidelines we should follow for accurate Biblical interpretation.

The first is that the Bible is the word of God and therefore is not self contradictory. That means on all matters of doctrine, the Bible only teaches one position. People who claim there are some verses that indicate our salvation is God’s choice while other verses say it’s our choice cannot be correct. It’s either one way or the other.

The second guideline we’ll follow is to always let the clearest verses on a particular issue help us understand those that aren’t so clear. The clearest statements on a topic define the Bible’s position on that topic. Therefore there are no obscure verses lurking somewhere else in the text that negate them. The Bible is not meant to confuse us or trick us, but to bring us understanding.

And third, we should always assume the Bible means just what it says when we place a given verse in its proper context, unless we’re given a clear indication that we shouldn’t make that assumption. Examples of this would be when we’re reading a parable or when some other obvious type of symbolism is being used.

With that introduction, lets look at the Bible’s clearest verses on the issue of who made the choice for us to be saved.

What Does The Bible Say?

One of the best known verses in the Bible is John 3:16. It’s also one of the clearest where the matter of our salvation is concerned. In the King James Version it reads like this:

“For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”

The Greek word translated “world” in this verse is “kosmos”. It appears 187 times in the New Testament and in 186 of those it’s translated “world”. But from the context of the passage we can see the Lord was not talking about the planet we live on, because it can’t believe anything. He had to be talking about the people who live on the planet, and when that’s the case the word “knsmos” refers to the inhabitants of the Earth, the human family. It’s an all inclusive word that covers everyone on Earth.

So God gave His Son because He loved each and every person on Earth. This is consistent with other statements the Bible makes about God’s love for all of mankind. When John the Baptist said that Jesus is
“the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world” (John 1:29) he used the same word for “world”. And 1 John 2:2 says, “He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world.” Again, the same Greek word was used.

This means Jesus didn’t just die for the sins of those God had chosen, but for the sins of everyone. It follows then, that when you add the conditional phrase
“whosoever believeth”, John 3:16 means everyone who believes Jesus died for their sins can ask for salvation and receive it because everyone’s sins have been paid for. Jesus confirmed that salvation is available to everyone in Matt. 7:7-8 and in John 6:40, as did Paul in Romans 10:13.

He Can’t Do That


Jesus could not have said, “For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in Him will have eternal life,” as He did in John 6:40, if God only gives eternal life to those He has already chosen. And Paul could not have said that some will perish because they refused to love the truth and be saved (2 Thes. 2:9-12) unless everyone has the ability and opportunity to believe the truth. Otherwise God would not be just.

Some say the sovereignty of God allows Him to do anything He wants. But that simply is not true. Moses had this to say about God.


“I will proclaim the name of the Lord. Oh, praise the greatness of our God! He is the Rock, his works are perfect, and all his ways are just. A faithful God who does no wrong, upright and just is he” (Deut. 32:3-4).

That means God can’t violate His own laws, or go back on His own word. And He can’t act in an unjust, unrighteous, unloving manner because these are His defining characteristics. It’s true that we’re all deserving of death and because of our sins God would be justified in condemning all of us. But to arbitrarily pick a few to save while leaving the rest to die in their sins would not be consistent with His justice, His righteousness, or His love. In fact it would be a violation of all three.


Two other clear verses underscore the fact that God could not have created some solely for the purpose of condemnation.
2 Peter 3:9 tells us that God doesn’t want anyone to perish but for everyone to come to repentance, and 1 Tim. 2:3-4 confirms that God wants all men to be saved. If this is what God wants, and if it is solely up to Him, then wouldn’t everyone be saved? And if it’s not what He wants why would these verses, written under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, say it is?


That’s not to say God isn’t involved in our salvation decision because He certainly is.

For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified. (Romans 8:29-30).

There are five steps here and God is involved in everyone of them, He foreknew, He predestined, He called, He justified, and He glorified. Lets take them one at a time.


He Foreknew


The Greek word means “to have knowledge beforehand.” In Isaiah 46:10 God said, “I make known the end from the beginning, from ancient times what is still to come.” God is not just someone who has a lot of time. He is outside of time altogether and can actually see past, present, and future all at once. Where our salvation is concerned, it means He knew everyone who would choose to be saved before any of us came to be.

(An alternate translation of
Rev. 13:8 tells us that the Lamb’s book of life, which contains the name of every member of the Church, was actually written from the creation of the world. If so, God not only knew our names from the very beginning but created a record of them as well. Rev. 21:27 tells us that only those whose names are written in this book can enter the New Jerusalem, the eternal home of the Church.)


He Predestined


This word means “to appoint beforehand.” It’s very similar to making an appointment or a reservation; arranging in advance for something to happen at a certain time. When God looked down through time to see us making our decision to be saved, He made an appointment for us to be conformed to the image of His son.

He Called


At the proper time in our life God calls us to do what He had already seen us do. This is a critical step. From Romans 3:9-18 we learn that because of our sin nature none of us will seek God on our own. The guilt we bear for our sins makes us fear Him. Therefore He doesn’t sit idly by. He sends people to tell us that He loves us and wants to make peace with us. He may even intervene in our life, orchestrating circumstances that will make us receptive to His call.

He Justified


The Greek word means “to render righteous” He caused us to become innocent, faultless, guiltless. He did this by applying the blood of Jesus to the sins of our life so we could dwell with Him. 1 Peter 3:18 says, “For Christ died for our sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God.” (Notice how this verse confirms that Jesus died for all of us, not just those God had chosen.)

He Glorified


He holds us in honor, adorns us with lustre, and clothes us with splendor. Obviously this will happen at the resurrection, when we will become in fact what we already are from His perspective. For those who are in Christ are a new creation; the old has gone the new has come! (2 Cor. 5:17).

We can see that these five steps were all put into motion when God saw in advance that we would one day choose Him by accepting the pardon He purchased for us with the blood of his Son. But if we were to ignore that first step then it would appear that God chose us. In fact those who believe that our salvation was God’s choice and not ours do just that, often calling their position “predestination”, after the second step in the process Paul laid out in
Romans 8:29-30.

To be continued :)

https://gracethrufaith.com/topical-studies/the-bibles-authority/bible-say-part-5-can-choose-saved/
 

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Part Two

Reformed Theology


The notion that God has to choose us is an improper application of Scripture that had its beginning in the Protestant Reformation. This is the time when the lines of delineation between Israel and the Church were erased and the Church was said to have inherited all the promises of Israel. A new system of understanding the Bible emerged, called reformed theology. Among its components is the idea that just as God chose Israel, in the same way He has chosen the Church.

It’s clear that Israel was chosen by a sovereign act of God. That’s why they’re called His chosen people. There was nothing to commend Abraham and his descendants above the other nations. In
Deut. 7:7-8 Moses told the Israelites: “The LORD did not set his affection on you and choose you because you were more numerous than other peoples, for you were the fewest of all peoples. But it was because the LORD loved you and kept the oath he swore to your forefathers that he brought you out with a mighty hand and redeemed you from the land of slavery, from the power of Pharaoh king of Egypt.”


Israel was in a national covenant with God that included a national homeland, and individuals had no say in the matter. Jewish males were circumcised on the eighth day of life, long before they had any ability to choose, as a lifelong symbol of this covenant. The nation stood or fell on the basis of their obedience to their covenant with God.


But when it comes to the Church, the Bible says,
“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.”(Matt. 7:7-8)

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

“For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day.” (John 6:40)

“Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” (Romans 10:13)

The Church is not in a covenant with God in the sense that Israel is. In the first place, the Church is not a nation and has no national homeland. Second, we are the beneficiaries of a covenant between the Father and the Son. Every human, regardless of race or national origin, has the privilege of entering into this beneficial relationship, as a matter of personal choice, upon confessing their belief that Jesus died for their sins and rose again.

Claiming the Church is the successor to Israel is a major flaw in reformed theology, and perhaps the most serious component of that flaw is the insistence that our salvation is determined by a sovereign act of God over which we have no control, rather than being something Jesus died to make available to all who choose to accept it.

Remember John’s words;
“He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world” (1 John 2:2).

Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light” (Matt. 11:28-30)
 

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Part Two

Reformed Theology


The notion that God has to choose us is an improper application of Scripture that had its beginning in the Protestant Reformation. This is the time when the lines of delineation between Israel and the Church were erased and the Church was said to have inherited all the promises of Israel. A new system of understanding the Bible emerged, called reformed theology. Among its components is the idea that just as God chose Israel, in the same way He has chosen the Church.

It’s clear that Israel was chosen by a sovereign act of God. That’s why they’re called His chosen people. There was nothing to commend Abraham and his descendants above the other nations. In
Deut. 7:7-8 Moses told the Israelites: “The LORD did not set his affection on you and choose you because you were more numerous than other peoples, for you were the fewest of all peoples. But it was because the LORD loved you and kept the oath he swore to your forefathers that he brought you out with a mighty hand and redeemed you from the land of slavery, from the power of Pharaoh king of Egypt.”


Israel was in a national covenant with God that included a national homeland, and individuals had no say in the matter. Jewish males were circumcised on the eighth day of life, long before they had any ability to choose, as a lifelong symbol of this covenant. The nation stood or fell on the basis of their obedience to their covenant with God.


But when it comes to the Church, the Bible says,
“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.”(Matt. 7:7-8)

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

“For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day.” (John 6:40)

“Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” (Romans 10:13)

The Church is not in a covenant with God in the sense that Israel is. In the first place, the Church is not a nation and has no national homeland. Second, we are the beneficiaries of a covenant between the Father and the Son. Every human, regardless of race or national origin, has the privilege of entering into this beneficial relationship, as a matter of personal choice, upon confessing their belief that Jesus died for their sins and rose again.

Claiming the Church is the successor to Israel is a major flaw in reformed theology, and perhaps the most serious component of that flaw is the insistence that our salvation is determined by a sovereign act of God over which we have no control, rather than being something Jesus died to make available to all who choose to accept it.

Remember John’s words;
“He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world” (1 John 2:2).

Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light” (Matt. 11:28-30)
Excellent posts. I wish that you would have many more "likes" in all you presented. While I was reading them, I was thinking about what I have said to many others..."If the Bible seems to contradict itself your understanding of it is wrong." It's a shame that our pet doctrines make us want to neglect certain parts of the Bible. Arguments concerning scripture come from the doctrines of man, and the carnal mind. Be quick to hear, and slow to speak.
 

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The ability to understand information is not enough. One must be born again.

"Jesus answered, "Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit."
J 3:5

No intelectual understanding of the gospel message will give you new birth. Sprit does that. Intelectual understanding is not spiritual understanding. And the spiritual one is needed.

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Also, this change from natural to spiritual must precede the positive answer to gospel:

"The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned."
1 Cor 2:14
bible say faith come from hearing. This is the procedure

1. We hear information, whosoever believe Will save

2. We believe that information, we invite Jesus

3. It call born again.

so born again happen after we chose to believe
 

Magenta

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Excellent posts. I wish that you would have many more "likes" in all you presented. While I was reading them, I was thinking about what I have said to many others..."If the Bible seems to contradict itself your understanding of it is wrong." It's a shame that our pet doctrines make us want to neglect certain parts of the Bible. Arguments concerning scripture come from the doctrines of man, and the carnal mind. Be quick to hear, and slow to speak.
Thank you :) Though I cannot take credit for those two posts (I gave the source link), they do align with what I believe in regards to choice, and extrapolate on that even further than my own thinking has gone. I find it somewhat shocking that people can say that since Jesus died for the sins of the whole world, then everyone is saved. It seems such a short sighted view, and ignores a plethora of other Scriptures. Likewise, saying man has no choice in the matter seems quite unbalanced. That God moves in our lives to allow us to see Him and make possible our choosing Him, is not Him forcing us to choose Him. To say it is negates the purpose and power of repentance.
 

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bible say faith come from hearing. This is the procedure

1. We hear information, whosoever believe Will save

2. We believe that information, we invite Jesus

3. It call born again.

so born again happen after we chose to believe
Scripture confirms that you are correct.

"The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance." (2 Peter 3:9)

step 1. Not God's desire for any....
step 2.
to perish, to be lost, ruined, destroyed, but wants us to have...
step 3.
a change of mind, as it appears to one who repents, of a purpose he has formed or of something he has done

"That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved." (Romans 10:9)

step 1.
to confess, i.e. to admit or declare one's self guilty of what one is accused of.
step 2.
to save a suffering one (from perishing), i.e. one suffering from disease, to make well, heal, restore to health


The steps are in correct order.
 

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Thank you :) Though I cannot take credit for those two posts (I gave the source link), they do align with what I believe in regards to choice, and extrapolate on that even further than my own thinking has gone. I find it somewhat shocking that people can say that since Jesus died for the sins of the whole world, then everyone is saved. It seems such a short sighted view, and ignores a plethora of other Scriptures. Likewise, saying man has no choice in the matter seems quite unbalanced. That God moves in our lives to allow us to see Him and make possible our choosing Him, is not Him forcing us to choose Him. To say it is negates the purpose and power of repentance.
Well spoken my friend.
 

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Wich one is true, we choose Jesus or Jesus choose us?

The thief choose Jesus or Jesus choose the thief?
Hello: here are some scripture that may help?

John 17:24, John 6:39, John 10:29
 

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Hello: here are some scripture that may help?

John 17:24, John 6:39, John 10:29
yep, God is love before the foundation of the earth, but God is just before the foundation of the earth AS well.

It is the Will of God every body go to heaven, but He also set up the rule, one must believe.
 

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yep, God is love before the foundation of the earth, but God is just before the foundation of the earth AS well.

It is the Will of God every body go to heaven, but He also set up the rule, one must believe.
And faith is His gift, so in the end its Him who decides about who will be saved.
 

Jackson123

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And faith is His gift, so in the end its Him who decides about who will be saved.
base oN John 3:16 whosoever believe Will be save

faith is a gift whosoever accept this gift Will be save whosoever refused this gift Will go to hell
 

trofimus

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base oN John 3:16 whosoever believe Will be save

faith is a gift whosoever accept this gift Will be save whosoever refused this gift Will go to hell
Faith is given to all saints, says Jude 1:3.
 

Jackson123

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Faith is given to all saints, says Jude 1:3.

Jude 1:3

Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints.



delivered unto saint.

Bible say faith come from hearing

So Faith delivered unto saint via hearing, whosoever hear and believe Will be save

 

trofimus

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Jude 1:3

Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints.



delivered unto saint.

Bible say faith come from hearing

So Faith delivered unto saint via hearing, whosoever hear and believe Will be save

1. We know that not all who hear also believe. So hearing is not automatically believing. And faith is not given to all.

2. We know, that all saints were given the faith from God

3. Jesus says that whoever believes, will be saved

=> Whom is given faith, will be saved, i.e. all saints will be saved.
 

Jackson123

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1. We know that not all who hear also believe. So hearing is not automatically believing. And faith is not given to all.

2. We know, that all saints were given the faith from God

3. Jesus says that whoever believes, will be saved

=> Whom is given faith, will be saved, i.e. all saints will be saved.
that verse Said faith delivered to saint

another verse say faith come from hearing.

it is up to listener whether believe what they hear or not, listener not robot, they are human, have a free Will they are image of God, have a free will
 

trofimus

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that verse Said faith delivered to saint

another verse say faith come from hearing.

it is up to listener whether believe what they hear or not, listener not robot, they are human, have a free Will they are image of God, have a free will
Yes, faith delivered, given to saints.

Give me just one verse in the whole Bible that says "humans have free will".

I will give you many verses like "its not on us, but on God".
 

Jackson123

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Yes, faith delivered, given to saints.

Give me just one verse in the whole Bible that says "humans have free will".

I will give you many verses like "its not on us, but on God".
Because human have free Will, they can refuse or accept, believe or not what ever they hear.