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Hello.
I've battled with this for a decade and here's hope for you. It IS possible. There is a way to overcome this. I have tried SO MANY things. Read so many books, went to courses and stuff. This is something I thought I'd never admit here but it's a real issue, and not just among men.
I don't know what works for others, there's SCF (Setting Captives Free - accountability and stuff), there are books (Eyes of Honor, Purity, etc.), listened to hundreds of podcasts for a long time, surrounded myself with
holy people (lol), there are SO MANY steps.
What set me free, completely, and this sounds so cliche, but when you actually understand what it
really is (and yes there's more to it than just cliche and mere head knowledge), is
the gospel - what Jesus has done for us at the Cross. It is called Good News for a reason. It sets people free.
My life changed when I understood the fact that even as I was, I was
right then accepted, loved and
completely forgiven, NOT AFTER I confessed, not AFTER I REGRETTED, no.. long, long before, 2017 years ago, Jesus KNEW and He
still paid for all of it.
I could write a book here but no one wants that. I have saved the resources that changed my life and I know might work for others too (to those who are willing) CD sermons, I'm in a church that preaches the transforming power of Jesus' grace and we have many, MANY resources and testimonies about being set free from "lust" (and I assume, by lust you mean, porn addiction, fornication, adultery, etc.)
If you like to read, the book
Eyes of Honor is a good start. It is an amazing book, I was already on my way to recovery when one of us here (Willie-T) suggested this book. I'd willingly buy one for you.
If you're serious about this, because I am, I can send you the resources - read: these in and of itself don't have the power the set you free, only Jesus can, these materials
will plant the seeds of faith in your heart, like Jesus said "your faith has made you well" when in reality, it was Jesus' power through your faith. Anyway, let me know (here, or send me a VM or a PM) Capisce?