Many called...few chosen. Allow that to soak in a few days before saying John 3:16, force and free will.
Here's the whole parable:
Matt 22:
2) The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son,
3) And sent forth his servants to
call them that were bidden to the wedding: and
they would not come.
4) Again, he sent forth other servants, saying,
Tell them which are bidden, Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready: come unto the marriage.
5) But
they made light of it, and went their ways, one to his farm, another to his merchandise:
6) And
the remnant took his servants, and entreated them spitefully, and slew them.
7) But when the king heard thereof, he was wroth: and he sent forth his armies, and destroyed those murderers, and burned up their city.
8) Then saith he to his servants,
The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy.
9) Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, bid to the marriage.
10) So those servants went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests.
11) And when the king came in to see the guests, he saw there a man which had not on a wedding garment:
12) And he saith unto him, Friend, how camest thou in hither not having a wedding garment? And he was speechless.
13) Then said the king to the servants, Bind him hand and foot, and take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
14) For many are called, but few are chosen.
God chooses those who first choose Him.
Again, God wants all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth (1 Tim 2:4), He is not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance (2 Pet 3:9). He wants the wicked to turn from their evil ways so they might live (Eze 33:11).
The Calvinist belief that God determines who He will save is not true. The invitation is to ALL.