through Jesus whom is God's son,and whom is one with him,so this means God is in control of who gets saved,just because we have a will of our own doesn't mean that we just come about being saved on our own,we have to come to "Realization" we don't simply decide"ok I'm going to get saved today" it is only because we come to into "Realization" that God has been in our lives that we come to him through Jesus christ,it's not a simple choice that we just make,God guides us,we have a choice in asking for and then accepting salvation from God through Jesus,but all is apart of what God has planned before hand,he knows our hearts,and can see if we desire to trust in him and be a worker for him,God doesn't lead someone to be saved if they are not "already willing" to be a worker for him,and so he does have control over one's salvation because he determines if he will "lead us to be saved" we don't just come to salvation of our own accord without him guiding us toward him,salvation is not of ourselves but through Jesus and by God's grace that we come to salvation,the choice is ours to make in the end but,our salvation is through Jesus,not just the one decision of ours,he doesn't force people to be saved,but he guides us to salvation,so "He is in control of "Everyone's salvation" for we make a decision to accept or reject it but without Jesus,there is no salvation lest one must abide by God's old law or die to it.