Sexual frustration is the root cause of rape. Arousal is natural and a biological function. Denying your nature is the greatest medical scourge. Frustration causes frustrating thoughts, that lead to distructive behaviour. So the choice is clear. Sexual release or forced sex on a unwilling participant being raped.
Or, a person stays in step with the Holy Spirit denying themselves by bringing their sinful desires under control by the power of God.
Those who do what you are suggesting above are those who are not in step with the Spirit, but are more concerned about fulfilling the desires of their flesh.
And it can be done, because sexual immorality was my personal demon for many years of my life, even as a Christian. And because I was in Christ the Spirit was warring against my flesh and the flesh against the Spirit, for they are contrary to one another. The conflict got to the point that though I fulfilled the desires of my flesh, it grieved me in the Spirit. At that time I Prayed to God saying "either this sin is going to kill me or you are going to make it possible for me to finally come out from underneath this" And God heard me and made it possible for me to get the victory over these desires. As a result, I am free of being a slave to sexual immorality.
Make no mistake, anyone who willfully continues in sexual immorality, along with the other sins of the flesh, will not inherit the kingdom of God.
What you are suggesting above is just an excuse to continue doing those things.
This all stems from the miss direction on the word: fornicate
There is no misdirection of the word "fornicate." Below is the actual meaning of the word:
porneía (the root of the English terms "pornography, pornographic"; cf.
4205 /pórnos) which is derived from
pernaō, "to sell off") – properly, a
selling off (surrendering) of sexual purity; promiscuity of any (every) type.
Any sexual intimacy outside of a married man and woman is sexual immorality
Everything that you have mentioned above are all reasons to not believe in Christ and commit yourself to him.
Regardless of what any of those individuals that you mentioned above do or don't do is not the question. The question to you and every person is what is your answer to Christ shedding his blood for you in payment for your sin. God will deal with those people that you have mentioned above, but what is your answer?
And when you recognize what Christ did for you, then your answer will be to receive him as Lord and Savior. You can't use the excuse of other groups as a reason to reject Christ. He will judge them and everyone else who rejects him.