The SAVED are reconciled, not vessels of wrath. Saved are pre-destined to be saved. You can't lose salvation or we are stronger than God. The same is said for trying to save others, we can't do it. It's pre-destined by God. Every sickness and step is also, otherwise it's our will and we can do what we will, against the will of God, even though neberchudnezzer was shown, he was allowed by the will of God, to do what he did.
Man cannot have will, right?