Husband got mad and shoved me into the counter and cubbard I am calling Abw tomorrow
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Ssd and ssi are two different things I lost my ssi when I got married. Rather then get ssi back I would rather work part time. My mother lied to judge all the time which made it impossible to get my kids back. So where is the question? Why read it careful other then my spelling and sentence structure is horrible
Jennifer Jennifer Jennifer, let me start with saying I am sorry things are hard right now, but u need to put a little more effort and thinking into the decisions you make. You can't flip flop around in life, your all over the board.
Get your priorities straight. And just so you know your safety and the safety of your kids as well as yours and their emotional well being should be your first priority. Don't continue to repeat bad decisions, we all make them but we need to learn from them.
I pray you find the stability you need and find the peace you deserve.
Get your priorities straight. And just so you know your safety and the safety of your kids as well as yours and their emotional well being should be your first priority. Don't continue to repeat bad decisions, we all make them but we need to learn from them.
I pray you find the stability you need and find the peace you deserve.
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I eat just fine I said they would eat before me if it came down to it yes.. My children are just fine thank you they are both adults and can do what ever they want to do. I take care of them just fine as well. I have no problem doing what I have to do to take care of myself my children and my dogs. I had things keeping me on hold before that I do not have to worry about now so I can take perfectly care of what I need to take care of thank you for your concern though.
Disabled people are allowed to work part time jobs.. As long as they don't go over a certain amount, it's fine.. I've been on SSI nearly my entire life, and I worked part time as a nurse's aide.. And if you would go back and read, she said she's KEEPING her part time job for now. She is entirely due the money that her mom stole from her. Mom basically sees her as a cash cow, that is now rapidly drying up. And when she gets divorced, she'll regain her SSI... Sponging mom and useless hubby will HOPEFULLY be out of the picture from now on.
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Husband got mad and shoved me into the counter and cubbard I am calling Abw tomorrow
Your OP explained: “I am still in excruiating pain he shoved me anyways. So I told him we are done he has to move out. So I am hoping and praying he does not try to hurt me while I am sleeping tonight and tomorrow I will go to the abw and see ifvthey will put me up in a hotel."
Truthfully, I think everyone here was afraid for your life.
I guess I thought you wanted prayer and support in helping you get away from him and start over. But here you are telling us he’s treating you ok for now and you’re making the best of it till you get more money, which doesn’t sound likely with the circumstances and with your injuries.
You continued, “he can not and will not ever change so I am doing what I have to do to get out of this circle of crap.... he makes me so miserable I just want to end my life most days. I have been stuck for so long because of lack of money…”
It does not sound like you are getting out of the “circle of crap”. You don’t need money to stay in a shelter plus they offer free legal advice, help you find work, even provide clothing for your job. They provide transporation, too. They will even drive some victims to another shelter out of the abuser’s vicinity to make sure the victim remains safe. All you have to do is decide to leave him for good.
As for your dogs, have you called every animal shelter in your area? I quickly Googled your area and saw at least 9 shelters. You can also contact vets, as my brother & his wife volunteered to several veterinarians as animal foster parents. There are lots of loving people out there available to help. You may even find help on Craigslist or local churches.
I was an advocate for a domestic violence organization that would offer group counseling and steps to safely escape abuse. If a person did not make any steps toward recovery from abuse, they were given a specific amount of time to do so or were asked to leave the group therapy. The reason being that there was limited space at the shelter and it was only offered to those who were serious about breaking the cycle of abuse in their lives.
Anyhow, I was just wondering what is the point of your thread. We're all worried about your safety. I truly hope you begin to take steps for a better life, jennifer.
Husband got mad and shoved me into the counter and cubbard I am calling Abw tomorrow
Your OP explained: “I am still in excruiating pain he shoved me anyways. So I told him we are done he has to move out. So I am hoping and praying he does not try to hurt me while I am sleeping tonight and tomorrow I will go to the abw and see ifvthey will put me up in a hotel."
Truthfully, I think everyone here was afraid for your life.
I guess I thought you wanted prayer and support in helping you get away from him and start over. But here you are telling us he’s treating you ok for now and you’re making the best of it till you get more money, which doesn’t sound likely with the circumstances and with your injuries.
You continued, “he can not and will not ever change so I am doing what I have to do to get out of this circle of crap.... he makes me so miserable I just want to end my life most days. I have been stuck for so long because of lack of money…”
It does not sound like you are getting out of the “circle of crap”. You don’t need money to stay in a shelter plus they offer free legal advice, help you find work, even provide clothing for your job. They provide transporation, too. They will even drive some victims to another shelter out of the abuser’s vicinity to make sure the victim remains safe. All you have to do is decide to leave him for good.
As for your dogs, have you called every animal shelter in your area? I quickly Googled your area and saw at least 9 shelters. You can also contact vets, as my brother & his wife volunteered to several veterinarians as animal foster parents. There are lots of loving people out there available to help. You may even find help on Craigslist or local churches.
I was an advocate for a domestic violence organization that would offer group counseling and steps to safely escape abuse. If a person did not make any steps toward recovery from abuse, they were given a specific amount of time to do so or were asked to leave the group therapy. The reason being that there was limited space at the shelter and it was only offered to those who were serious about breaking the cycle of abuse in their lives.
Anyhow, I was just wondering what is the point of your thread. We're all worried about your safety. I truly hope you begin to take steps for a better life, jennifer.
