Sleeping together in an unsafe manor would be bad- so he has a point. An unsafe manor may have bad wiring or plumbing, or an infestation of rodents.That seems to be what he is saying
I don't think anyone meant you were trolling in order to be offensive, but to get a laugh. It just seems strange that you were all shook up about marrying a virgin (there's actually nothing wrong with that) and now you think that it is a good idea to commit adultery with a woman who is a victim of domestic violence. FYI most women who are in abusive situations are not looking for a lover, that is the last thing on their priority list. Maslow's hierarchy of needs- if a person feels unsafe and in danger, the desire for sex goes out the window. The very first need of humans is safety.
its been around 1.5 years now we both have same value as well so dont focus and worry too much about it 
Out of all due respect....I never said having sex outside of marriage is okay. It is wrong, but it is also something God can and will forgive you for as long as you ask for forgiveness. All I said was that I did it and something that both my bf and I agreed that we need to wait for marriage to do it again because we have a love and respect for one another. We both repented.
Now, as far as the age thing goes, I didn't know his age going in. In fact if I did, I may not have said yes. He doesn't look or act his age, but let's face it, neither do I, we just mesh together fairly well. I think you won't really know what you would do in the given situation until you come across it yourself
Stop talking like you're 90. It's never too late. And in the end, none of us dies alone..God is with us. 
