Hi, rocking man!
I don´t have the key for any success, but I have seen you are kind, HONEST... I know you have said a couple of limitations you have (the very time you came into CC and wanted to be more than a member) Do you remember that? (I do)
Just be you! Those who really apreciate the way you are will tell you. Those who do not (will tell you too). Ha! Ha! There are words taht can´t be herad "nice" but some are sincere, honest, DIRECT. Just learn about you, who you are and who you wnat to be.
We cannot please the world. Just see Jesus (and the way many mistreated Him for the way He was (and the way He is).
Listen to what girls have to say (they always have a say) and be on your guard, because many would like to change you... It´s up to you to know WHO you want to be. Tips serve, but the real you cannot not be hidden too long.
Have a nice week, brother!