I think this hits on the issue right here, the traditional church model where one man leads a ceremonial what i have come to call “play acting” ceremony which follows a script from begining to end (prayer, sing a hymn, announcments, sing a hymn, read a passage, sing a hymn, prayer, 20minute sermonette, prayer alter call prayer dismisal)i knownot all follow this script. But most churches i have been to follow something like this. Sunday night and wed night services are less stringent. And whats funny, is if we take 1 cor 14 literally, women should NOT be allowed to pray on wed night prayer meeting either, but most placed i have been, even if they follow this allow women to pray (especially the pastors wife) and in most of the sunday school meetings women prayed and spoke openly,
we have gotten away from the NT church model and have followed a traditional model which has preachers, instead of teachers, preaching instead of discipling, and worried more about numbers than souls,
the church has lost its way,