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loyaldisciple
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The greater responsibility is on the man to first love his wife sacrificially ... just as Christ loves His bride, the church and gave Himself for it. This is where a Godly husband needs to keep his focus. Any man that takes up his responsibility in this regard will have no issues regarding his own wife's "obedience". I hate even saying the word "obedient". It shouldn't even factor in in a healthy marriage.
A man can love his wife just fine and treat her with great respect and at the same time not want her to become any pastor and go against the word of God. If he does love her, then he will influence her to follow God and not to disobey Him.