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SundayMorning88

SundayMorning88

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All I want more than anything is to get married and have a family. I'm losing hope I just wanna cry. I'm so lonely and every guy I meet ghosts me. I want to be the love of someone's life and share my life with someone. IDK what to do, my church offers NOTHING for singles and saying sites are I joke. Please help me or advice me. Thanks

I know I posted about this before but I lost my post.
 
I'm sorry :(. That is a tough place to be. Honestly, my only advice is to cling to Jesus, and try to embrace your life as a single. Find things good about life, instead of always looking at the bad and what you cannot have.
 
What happened to the guy at the Mexican restaurant? Did he ghost you too?

Not being facetious; I'm seriously asking. :)
 
There's really not much advice to give. Marriage is not a promise. I, too, have always wanted to be married yet here I am in my 40s and nothing.
The best advice I've learned is simply to learn to be content with where you're at.

But one hard truth to face is if you keep meeting guys tgat ghost you what is the common factor? You. Now I can't say if you run guys off or if you're wonderful and simply male bad choices, but for so many to repeat the same behavior points towards who you're choosing.
I would take some time to reevaluate yourself. If you have any close friends perhaps ask them to share issues with you that may reflect on what causes this.
I had to go through figuring out why my relationships weren't working and I did figure it out. And it wasn't easy but I'm glad I did. Perhaps now is a good time to focus inward instead of outward and see what's going on internally.
 
SundayMorning88 said:
All I want more than anything is to get married and have a family. I'm losing hope I just wanna cry. I'm so lonely and every guy I meet ghosts me. I want to be the love of someone's life and share my life with someone. IDK what to do, my church offers NOTHING for singles and saying sites are I joke. Please help me or advice me. Thanks

I know I posted about this before but I lost my post.
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How old are you because your age is not listed on your profile? I understand how you feel. I met my wife on this site. You just never know who your are going to meet so don't give up hope I am sure that you have prayed to God about this so please add my prayer to yours for God to search and find a faithful and loving man of your heart's desire for you. Glad to have you join us. Welcome to CC.
 
Nothing quite like the scent of desperation to make a man run for the hills.

You can find your previous posts by looking on your profile, where there is a link to them :)
 
SundayMorning88 said:
All I want more than anything is to get married and have a family. I'm losing hope I just wanna cry. I'm so lonely and every guy I meet ghosts me. I want to be the love of someone's life and share my life with someone. IDK what to do, my church offers NOTHING for singles and saying sites are I joke. Please help me or advice me. Thanks

I know I posted about this before but I lost my post.
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I think I've said this before, you needed to go after a different type of guy.
 
SundayMorning88 said:
All I want more than anything is to get married and have a family. I'm losing hope I just wanna cry. I'm so lonely and every guy I meet ghosts me. I want to be the love of someone's life and share my life with someone. IDK what to do, my church offers NOTHING for singles and saying sites are I joke. Please help me or advice me. Thanks

I know I posted about this before but I lost my post.
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SundayMorning88 said:
He said I wasn't his type
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Pray sis. Give it to God, only He knows who is best suited for you.

And You’re not this guys “type” for a reason. It’s not meant to be. Rely and trust in God on this one.
 
SundayMorning88 said:
All I want more than anything is to get married and have a family. I'm losing hope I just wanna cry. I'm so lonely and every guy I meet ghosts me. I want to be the love of someone's life and share my life with someone. IDK what to do, my church offers NOTHING for singles and saying sites are I joke. Please help me or advice me. Thanks

I know I posted about this before but I lost my post.
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Hi! Sis :)
Do you go out? do you have friends ? Maybe,Develop a new interest like (hiking with friends,volunteering in hospitals,nursing homes, participate in medical missions etc) some people found love in those places :)


You are 29 and you can take care of yourself and can make a good decision for yourself...take the good advice and leave the one you think is not helping you...as far as I know there are couples who meet online.... You just have to be vigilant. In everything u decide or do start with a prayer... Ask for guidance and protection :) just be open and not be shy to say that you are looking for someone...you'll never know maybe the next person you will meet could be the one :) sometimes love comes in the most unexpected time,place and person :)



Sis, if it is meant to be it will be,if it is really for you it will be yours... :) Don't be sad when people ghosted you...remember sis,it was not your fault.




God bless you ❤
 
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