What's wrong with pockets? I'm not cramming everything in my pockets... it's all neatly organized.
I have a Standard Loadout I leave the house with.
Front Left Pocket - wallet, phone, earbuds, change. Wallet protects phone so I don't have to put the phone in a bulky, ugly case.
Front Right Pocket - multi-tool knife, keys, pen.
Back Left Pocket - nothing. I don't like to sit on a lump when I sit. Also keeping a wallet in the back pocket was a fashion I think was invented by pickpockets to make their lives easier.
Back Right Pocket - car key, because I don't want my whole keyring hanging from the ignition switch when I'm driving.
When I'm at home my pocket loadout is in one specific place where I always dump out my pockets. If any of my pocket stuff is not in my pockets, it's in that spot. I haven't had to hunt for my wallet or keys in years.
NOTA BIEN: I'm not going to make fun of women's purses for two reasons.
1 - Fashion requires a modern woman to carry a whole cosmetics line around with her these days, and women listen to fashion a lot more than they listen to guys who tell them they really don't need to wear all that junk.
2 - A disturbingly large amount of women's clothing does not come with pockets. Pockets are apparently useful for men, but not stylish enough for women. Were I a woman, I would go slightly crazy trying to find clothing that actually has pockets.