if all the commandments hang on 2 commandments which are not part of the 10 commandments the 10 can't be a summary of all of the Law; rather, the 2 greatest sum up all the 10 + all the others.
what you're suggesting is something like this:
we know all integers are odd or even.
now here's 10 more descriptions of different kinds of integers:
{positive, negative, prime, composite, squares, cubes, divisible by 5, triangular, factorial, perfect}
these 10 other descriptions are a summary of the 2 first ones?
when something is already reduced to two categories you don't 'summarize' it by adding 10 additional categories.
((why does this rationale keep getting bandied about??))
-- BUT
this brings up an interesting strategy:
can we find the 'least' commandment(s) by looking for those commandments which do not summarize any others?
First, integers are whole numbers, (negative, and 0 included), not merely either odd or even numbers, so your analogy didn't work, because the definition wasn't accurate.
Now, try this on for size. (You might still disagree, but at
least you understand what I'm saying... maybe.)
What does "love God with all your heart all your soul with all your mind and with all your strength" look like?
It looks like this.
Exodus 20:1
And God spoke all these words:
2 “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
3 “You shall have no other gods before me.
4 “You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. 5 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, 6 but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.
7 “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.
8 “Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. 9 Six days you shall labor and do all your work, 10 but the seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your male or female servant, nor your animals, nor any foreigner residing in your towns. 11 For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.
What does "love your neighbor as yourself" look like?
It looks like this.
Exodus 20:12 “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.
13 “You shall not murder.
14 “You shall not commit adultery.
15 “You shall not steal.
16 “You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.
17 “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.”
What does loving self first look like?
Sin!
What is the least commandment? There isn't one. Either love God completely and love others perfectly, or fall short.
We fell short. We fell short before we even understood we were falling short. So the one thing we should get out of all God has ever taught us about the commandments is I can't do it, Lord! Help me! And, if we are true followers of the Lord, that is not a one time request. That is a constant request, because he is our strength. We are our weakness.
Maybe there is a least. We are the least, not a commandment.
So is there a meeting of the minds now, even if there might still be disagreement? And, if there is disagreement, what are you disagreeing with? I'm not saying I have the only answer. I hope I have Lord's answer. If I'm wrong, tell me where I've gone wrong? I'd rather have the Lord's answer than my answer.