Is church a good place to meet single girls?

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Avalon1

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Like if I'm a regular at a church and happen to meet a girl that I like and I ask her out. Is it looked down upon to ask out a girl at church? What are your thoughts on this topic?
 
Lynx

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Why would it be looked down on? Are you a 68 year old guy and she's a 19 year old? Aside from a very large age discrepancy, I don't see any reason it would be looked down on.

You won't know if you don't try. If you ask her out she might say yes and you get a date or she might turn you down and you don't get a date. If you don't ask her out you don't get a date.

(DISCLAIMER: This message typed by a guy who has never even gone on a date before, so I could be wrong.)
 
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I hope everyone is not going to think "Oh that guy is just here to hit on girls.". I'm 25 and I've never had a girlfriend, and I've only been on two dates.
 
Tommy379

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Avalon1 said:
I hope everyone is not going to think "Oh that guy is just here to hit on girls.". I'm 25 and I've never had a girlfriend, and I've only been on two dates.
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What other reason is there to go to church?
 
melita916

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I think many people on cc and all around have meet their spouse at a fellowship. Nothing wrong with that.

Now, if the ONLY purpose a person has in attending a fellowship is just to meet potential dates, then maybe someone will frown on it lol.
 
Tommy379

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melita916 said:
I think many people on cc and all around have meet their spouse at a fellowship. Nothing wrong with that.

Now, if the ONLY purpose a person has in attending a fellowship is just to meet potential dates, then maybe someone will frown on it lol.
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Those people who don't like it, can mind their own business.
 
Lynx

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Well that depends. If a girl is at my church just to find a date and she asks ME out... I wouldn't look down on that at all, not one bit, nope, nope.
 
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Lynx said:
Well that depends. If a girl is at my church just to find a date and she asks ME out... I wouldn't look down on that at all, not one bit, nope, nope.
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Yeah, but would you go?
 
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no ,i don't think it's wrong if you are part of that chuurch
 
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Go to the church if you like the teaching and fellowship. If you feel at home in the church and find someone that feels at home in that church it is a bonus.
 
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toinena said:
Go to the church if you like the teaching and fellowship. If you feel at home in the church and find someone that feels at home in that church it is a bonus.
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Is Church a good place to meet single girls? Sure, I met my ex-wife there.:LOL::ROFL::LOL:
 
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Avalon1 said:
Like if I'm a regular at a church and happen to meet a girl that I like and I ask her out. Is it looked down upon to ask out a girl at church? What are your thoughts on this topic?
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Whose opinion on this issue matters to you? Why does it matter? There will always be someone who looks down on you for seeking a relationship... anywhere.
 
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I'm praying that I'll meet one. Theirs young adults at my church but the men outnumber the women 10 to 1.
 
Tommy379

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That's what I'm talking about.
 
ChandlerFan

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I've never heard about it being looked down upon, especially if it's a place you have already been attending for awhile. Having a relationship with someone within the context of Christian community is a great way to go if it gets to that point. You are better off not asking her out in front of a bunch of people, though.
 
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