I am burning of desire but cant get married

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Jewel5712

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#82
Courage and boldness..doesnt mean i cannot give my answer. A psychologist specialised on sex would most likely find the issue. Sex shops have stuff that mske guys happy...
U dont have to attack me for being honest
Lol..wasnt "attacking" stating my opinion as you did as well! I didnt even say i DISAGREED with you..lol
 

Demi777

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#84
What are you depressed bout?
I tool in an old cat for about 2 weeks now. The owner didnt want him nomore and he was very weak. I kept building him back up and trying to find him a goodlot home.
Today the ex owner shows up and wants him back. I missed em so I still got the cat.
Im depressed because by law I have to give him back eventhough they neglected him.
He had fleas, an ear sickness that is still going on, diarea, he wouldnt play or wash himself.. i made him strong and all and I gotta give him back...im so fed up
 

Jewel5712

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I tool in an old cat for about 2 weeks now. The owner didnt want him nomore and he was very weak. I kept building him back up and trying to find him a goodlot home.
Today the ex owner shows up and wants him back. I missed em so I still got the cat.
Im depressed because by law I have to give him back eventhough they neglected him.
He had fleas, an ear sickness that is still going on, diarea, he wouldnt play or wash himself.. i made him strong and all and I gotta give him back...im so fed up
Sorry to hear..sounds like you love animals and have a big heart for them...however..cant you say that original owner neglected the cat? Do you have animal services there? Report the original owner?
 

Demi777

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Sorry to hear..sounds like you love animals and have a big heart for them...however..cant you say that original owner neglected the cat? Do you have animal services there? Report the original owner?
Yes but I would have to get a paper by a vet and give that to the veterinarian association. We don't have strong laws here. Animals are material things by law
 

Jewel5712

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Yes but I would have to get a paper by a vet and give that to the veterinarian association. We don't have strong laws here. Animals are material things by law
Oh...ok...can you tell owner tgat if he abuses the cat again youll have him reported? Then again..gets to a legal thing right?
 

Demi777

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Oh...ok...can you tell owner tgat if he abuses the cat again youll have him reported? Then again..gets to a legal thing right?
Thing is the owner is moving away. I will have no idea how the kitty will be doing
 

Demi777

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Ok..that IS depressing...you might have to get a new kitty?
I have 3 cats. This one is my little refugee. I even found someone that would have been a great home for him. Oh well
 

Jewel5712

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I have 3 cats. This one is my little refugee. I even found someone that would have been a great home for him. Oh well
My daughter loves animals and brought home lots of stays...dogs..cats..mourning doves that fell out the next 2 days old...4 little rabbits that didnt have hair or eyes open etc..thankfully no snakes or spiders :)
 

Oncefallen

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I think the OP is the same one who was banned before

Man, you are on fire today.

Look a bit familiar?


How do i deal with being alone my whole life? I would really like to meet a woman and get married one day but its impossible, it can not happen and that makes me sad.

I have too many flaws for a woman to like me. Its not possible to have a crush on me.

Some of my flaws:


bad posture (back and neck, born with it did not get it from too much sitting infront of computer etc)

extremely red lips (looks like lipstick)

little head.

big and deformed nose.

bushy eyebrows.

walking strange.

crooked foot.

ptosis/lazy eye.

my skin is terrible.

i have a weird way of looking with my eyes.

acne.

deformed fingers (they are crooked)

Both legs looks strange.

extremely skinny arms.

long forehead,

birthmarks in the face.

incredible bad at talking with people (i suspect that I have some kind of light damage to the brain)

weird voice.

hairy.

unibrow.

skin that protrudes at the nails.

Hiatus hernia.

strange / ugly hair.

big ears.

virgin and unkissed even though I'm so old.

Not had friends irl for 12 years. I do have 2 internet friends thought (2 guys who are like me)

Dyslexia.

stupid, low iq.

poor eyesight.

afraid of dogs and cats.

will never have a good job and never have a lot of money.

sometimes there are a lot of embarrassing random leak and saliva out of my mouth.

ugly looking teeth and they are yellow.

Sometimes I stammer.

blinks a lot with the eyes.

licking my lips alot.

extreme dandruff (no schampoo helps me)

sweats a lot and often, i use soap and rollon and try different versions .... but of course its not working.

Snores loud/weird according to my brothers. I sound like a car (?)

sleeping problems. Whick makes me look tired and sad.

no clothes suits me. I look ugly in everything.

long neck.


Etc. I can just keep going. I tried everything to fix my flaws but nothing is working. How i am supposed to live a normal life with all these flaws. I dont ever see myself getting friends and a wife. People are shallow. Why did god give me so many flaws and made people so shallow.
 

Oncefallen

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Confused..please explain?
Tommy said that he thought the OP of this thread was someone who had been banned before. Tommy was correct. The rather long quoted post was the OP of a thread that this user made under a different nic. a couple of months ago.

The reason that I said that Tommy was on fire was that this morning he also correctly guessed that a male profile that was randomly PMing women was the same Nigerian user (claiming to be from Texas) as a female profile that was randomly PMing men (also claiming to be from Texas).
 

Jewel5712

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Tommy said that he thought the OP of this thread was someone who had been banned before. Tommy was correct. The rather long quoted post was the OP of a thread that this user made under a different nic. a couple of months ago.

The reason that I said that Tommy was on fire was that this morning he also correctly guessed that a male profile that was randomly PMing women was the same Nigerian user (claiming to be from Texas) as a female profile that was randomly PMing men (also claiming to be from Texas).
Must be his cop training..sniff out the bad guys n yes..i told tommy bout the banned guy scott from texas that PMed me again this morning like he did bout 10 days ago..freaked me out how persistant he was bout my personal info..i ignored him twice now..GOOD JOB TOMMY :)
 

Lynx

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Tommy's a cop. He has probably seen so much crap he's good at spotting it, even in a text-based internet forum.
 

Jewel5712

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Tommy said that he thought the OP of this thread was someone who had been banned before. Tommy was correct. The rather long quoted post was the OP of a thread that this user made under a different nic. a couple of months ago.

The reason that I said that Tommy was on fire was that this morning he also correctly guessed that a male profile that was randomly PMing women was the same Nigerian user (claiming to be from Texas) as a female profile that was randomly PMing men (also claiming to be from Texas).
Thanks for explanation oncefallen :)