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Janna38

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Joefizz you can kindly slip out of there. You’re smart. No you have not lost your marbles. Still time.
 

seoulsearch

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Attention from an attractive member of the opposite gender, especially if you're lonely and have never had a relationship before, is just as addictive, if not more so, than the most powerful of drugs.

It is SO hard to pull yourself away from it. I understand, because I've been there.

But you can do this, Joe.

You have friends here who care about and love you.

Cut all contact with this person, block her off everything, and keep talking to us instead of her.

I know it's not the same, and I'm sorry, but we love you and don't want to see you taken advantage of.

We will also never ask you for money.
 
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thatfizzyguy

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Joefizz you can kindly slip out of there. You’re smart. No you have not lost your marbles. Still time.
Yeah it's no big deal made sure not to give her any definitive personal information like my address all she got from me was my old phone number that's going out in about 2 months and 75$ in amazon cards which I usually waste about 100$ on something every pay day if I feel like it anyways the rest goes to necessities, and bills.
 

Janna38

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Yeah it's no big deal made sure not to give her any definitive personal information like my address all she got from me was my old phone number that's going out in about 2 months and 75$ in amazon cards which I usually waste about 100$ on something every pay day if I feel like it anyways the rest goes to necessities, and bills.
No no no stay safe Joseph
 
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thatfizzyguy

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Nah don't be sorry you showed me you know this stuff and successfully informed me of what to look out for now more indepth and gave me a lot of information to consider if she was phony for myself.
 

seoulsearch

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Yeah it's no big deal made sure not to give her any definitive personal information like my address all she got from me was my old phone number that's going out in about 2 months and 75$ in amazon cards which I usually waste about 100$ on something every pay day if I feel like it anyways the rest goes to necessities, and bills.
Joe,

Get away from this person NOW before she takes you for anything else. If she's scammed you out of $75 in 5 days, there is no limit to what she's going to try to use you for.

I pray that you will listen to us.

One of THE best things about you is your open, loving heart. You believe the best about everyone and always want to give someone a chance, even when they've hurt you.

Watching someone take advantage of that makes me angry enough to want to punch them, which isn't a very Christian answer, but it's an honest one. I'll keep asking God to calm me down and pray for this scammer, too.

But do you know what makes me even sadder?

Watching a kind, good-heart person like you willingly and purposely wanting to believe someone who has only evil intentions, when all the evidence is right there in front of you.

DO NOT trust anyone who asks you for money, especially right off the bat.

I know it's not the same as hearing it from what you believe is a beautiful woman, but, WE LOVE YOU, JOE.
 

NotmebutHim

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It's pretty much part of the "guy code" that a super attractive woman won't approach you first unless you're incredibly good looking. Even then, it's no guarantee.

Anyway Joe, I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you man. Just know that your brothers and sisters here at CC are only looking out for you. And God is always watching!

From Proverbs: "A prudent man foresees the evil and hides himself. But the simple pass on and are punished".
 

Tommy379

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I want to see Seoulsearch beat the snot out of this scammer.
 

Tommy379

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It's pretty much part of the "guy code" that a super attractive woman won't approach you first unless you're incredibly good looking. Even then, it's no guarantee.

Anyway Joe, I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you man. Just know that your brothers and sisters here at CC are only looking out for you. And God is always watching!

From Proverbs: "A prudent man foresees the evil and hides himself. But the simple pass on and are punished".
The rule is more:
2s go with 2s
9s go with 9s
 

seoulsearch

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I want to see Seoulsearch beat the snot out of this scammer.
I can't stand people who take advantage of good people, but they also have to make sure they make the choice to not be taken advantage of.

Stories like this get my blood boiling, for sure.

Set up the Thunderdome, Tommy, and let's make this happen. :mad:

P.S. Tickets on sale now.

I'm pretty sure it would be CC's biggest fundraiser, ever.
 

Tommy379

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I can't stand people who take advantage of good people, but they also have to make sure they're not taken advantage of.

Stories like this get my blood boiling, for sure.

Set up the Thunderdome, Tommy, and let's make this happen. :mad:
On it. Two enter, one leaves.
 

seoulsearch

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On it. Two enter, one leaves.
I'm not a very big person (5 foot 1 and 1/4), and I've never actually been in a physical fight in all my life.

But, if the day ever came, I've always told myself, "I might not win--in fact, I probably won't. But boy, will I ever try to make sure they get a run for the money."

You can peel me off the floor and take me to the hospital when it's all over, just as long as I get in at least 3 good shots.
 

Tommy379

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I'm not a very big person (5 foot 1 and 1/4), and I've never actually been in a physical fight in all my life.

But, if the day ever came, I've always told myself, "I might not win--in fact, I probably won't. But boy, will I ever try to make sure they get a run for the money."

You can peel me off the floor and take me to the hospital when it's all over, just as long as I get in at least 3 good shots.
If you're gonna fight, fight like the 3rd monkey on the ramp to Noah's Ark, and it's starting to rain.
 
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