WHY ARE ALL THE "GOOD MEN" MARRIED MEN?

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cinder

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I think I've got this figured out.... All the good men are taken because as soon as the first woman realizes he's a good man, she snaps him up and he's no longer available. So the hidden treasures that are out there are still hidden and no one realizes what a treasure that person is.
 

Jewel5712

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Jun 22, 2018
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#42
Good day Jewel5712 and ladies,

Do you want the truth where to find a few “good men?”... The more important question is, CAN YOU HANDLE THE TRUTH?

Here’s where you’ll find A Few Good Men:

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GREAT MOVIE! Tom cruise gets better looking with age! ;)
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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#43
I think I've got this figured out.... All the good men are taken because as soon as the first woman realizes he's a good man, she snaps him up and he's no longer available. So the hidden treasures that are out there are still hidden and no one realizes what a treasure that person is.
Yup. First the men get snapped up, then they get snapped at. I'm starting to think women are like gators.

Reckon I'm gonna stay hidden.
 

Jewel5712

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Jun 22, 2018
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#44
Yup. First the men get snapped up, then they get snapped at. I'm starting to think women are like gators.

Reckon I'm gonna stay hidden.
Awww not gonna take the "bait?" (says the crock with a smile)

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Solemateleft

Honor, Courage, Commitment
Jun 25, 2017
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#45
lol - Here is a good training video for men - just a few things we'll all need to know about the future law and order for who is really in charge...

After every fight
Just apologize
You know I'm never wrong
Why disagree?
Why, why disagree?
You gotta know how to treat me like a lady
Even when I'm acting crazy

Dear Future Husband, here's a few things you'll need to know
 

Jewel5712

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#46

Dino246

Senior Member
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#48
lol - Here is a good training video for men - just a few things we'll all need to know about the future law and order for who is really in charge...

After every fight
Just apologize
You know I'm never wrong
Why disagree?
Why, why disagree?
You gotta know how to treat me like a lady
Even when I'm acting crazy

Dear Future Husband, here's a few things you'll need to know
I'd rather stay single than be married to such an entitled "woman".
 
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7seasrekeyed

Guest
#49
I don't believe all the good men are taken. I think there's plenty out there. Lots of good women too.
Many of the men that are married or taken aren't necessarily 'good' either. (And vice versa)!

I'm not a fan of the idea that women 'train' men. Men aren't dogs.
Couples grow together, and hopefully sharpen each other in the process.
:)

I could not agree more (I'm married with I guess most call a 'good man' but he came that way)

no fan of training either...in either direction

mutual respect and allowing the other to be who they are is far better....I mean that's who you married to begin with

but sure sharp edges do get rubbed off ;)
 

Solemateleft

Honor, Courage, Commitment
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#50
Reminds me of a joke I heard from Joel Osteen:

God makes a surprise visit to the Pearly Gates and says “I want the men to make two lines — one line for the men that dominated their women on earth, and the other line for the men who were dominated by their women. Also, I want all the women to go with St Peter.”

The next time God looked, the women are gone, and there are two lines. The line for the men who were dominated by their women was 100 miles long, and in the line of men who dominated their women there was only one man.

God got mad and said “You men should be ashamed of yourselves. I created you in my image and you were all whipped by your mates. Look at the only one of my sons who stood up and made me proud. Learn from him! Tell them, my son, how did you manage to be the only one in this line?”

The man surprised and confused replied “I don’t know, my wife told me to stand here.”
 

Jewel5712

Well-known member
Jun 22, 2018
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#51
Reminds me of a joke I heard from Joel Osteen:

God makes a surprise visit to the Pearly Gates and says “I want the men to make two lines — one line for the men that dominated their women on earth, and the other line for the men who were dominated by their women. Also, I want all the women to go with St Peter.”

The next time God looked, the women are gone, and there are two lines. The line for the men who were dominated by their women was 100 miles long, and in the line of men who dominated their women there was only one man.

God got mad and said “You men should be ashamed of yourselves. I created you in my image and you were all whipped by your mates. Look at the only one of my sons who stood up and made me proud. Learn from him! Tell them, my son, how did you manage to be the only one in this line?”

The man surprised and confused replied “I don’t know, my wife told me to stand here.”
AWESOME!!!
 
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#53
lol - Here is a good training video for men - just a few things we'll all need to know about the future law and order for who is really in charge...

After every fight
Just apologize
You know I'm never wrong
Why disagree?
Why, why disagree?
You gotta know how to treat me like a lady
Even when I'm acting crazy

Dear Future Husband, here's a few things you'll need to know
I was so impressed with her singing... and then I realized its a Lip Sync Battle.. :ROFL:
 

Subhumanoidal

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Sep 17, 2018
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#57
All the good men aren't taken. If they were there'd be no good men, yet good men are still getting married.
A more likely scenario is a man "seems" good because he's married, so the assumption is he's good. But since few unhappyily married people make it public even if he's not good most people won't have a clue and just assume.
With this perception women, sometimes, go after the man and convince him to cheat, without realizing the act of cheating no longer allows him to be as good as he was perceived, yet these women still assume he's good.
So really such claims are nothing but assumption.
Good men and women are out there so the question we should be asking ourselves is are we living up to the same standard we expect in those we want? If we were would those quality people not want us as well?
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
May 23, 2009
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#59
Some men are discarded like trash.
Yeah... But you know what happens?

They wind up sitting next to all the former wives who were dumped for younger, prettier models, and we all wind up grumbling together.
 

Tommy379

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Jan 12, 2016
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#60
Yeah... But you know what happens?

They wind up sitting next to all the former wives who were dumped for younger, prettier models, and we all wind up grumbling together.
There is no other refuse I rather be commingled with.