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Why are people reluctant to talk or date each other these days
No male seems to be interested in a 50 year old female
It seems like no one likes distance even if you live in the same area
 

Lynx

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Maybe people have finally realized it is okay to be alone.
 
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Oh ok it’s very difficult to communicate with anyone theses days all I want is to communicate well
But would like to see a photo of the person I talk with you can tell heaps about a persons photo
 
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Yer I agree only wish people would be honest
I don’t like being taken for a ride
 

Lynx

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Oh ok it’s very difficult to communicate with anyone theses days all I want is to communicate well
But would like to see a photo of the person I talk with you can tell heaps about a persons photo
On a forum your picture doesn't matter. It's your words that matter, what you have to say and how you say it. I don't know any of the people here on sight, but I can recognize a lot of them by what they say, without looking at the user names.
 
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So true
However I have spoken to one guy who’s words spoke for them self’s the pitch of the words told the real story
 

Dino246

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Oh ok it’s very difficult to communicate with anyone theses days all I want is to communicate well
But would like to see a photo of the person I talk with you can tell heaps about a persons photo
I don't write this to be unpleasant, but I have to point out that YOU don't have an image of yourself either on your avatar or on your profile.

So please don't complain that others don't have pictures of themselves posted. : )
 
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I don't write this to be unpleasant, but I have to point out that YOU don't have an image of yourself either on your avatar or on your profile.

So please don't complain that others don't have pictures of themselves posted. : )
I know I took my photo down as to mostly avatar profile other wise my photo was there
 

TamLynn

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Oh ok it’s very difficult to communicate with anyone theses days all I want is to communicate well
But would like to see a photo of the person I talk with you can tell heaps about a persons photo
I'm interested to know what 'heaps' you can tell about a person's photo?
(Besides what they look like. If it's even really them)
I don't think you can tell diddly squat about a person by seeing a photo of them. 😶
 

17Bees

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I'm interested to know what 'heaps' you can tell about a person's photo?
(Besides what they look like. If it's even really them)
I don't think you can tell diddly squat about a person by seeing a photo of them. 😶
I'd just like to stop and take my hat off to TamLynn for using diddly squat in a sentence and sounding so accurate.

So - here's a little pop quiz. Who would you rather have a date with?

Ted Bundy?


Or Anthony Hopkins....

 
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I know I took my photo down as to mostly avatar profile other wise my photo was there
Why are people reluctant to talk or date each other these days
No male seems to be interested in a 50 year old female
It seems like no one likes distance even if you live in the same area
i don’t wish to be lonely anymore
However this is my choice
 

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Why are people reluctant to talk or date each other these days
No male seems to be interested in a 50 year old female
It seems like no one likes distance even if you live in the same area
What you have said was not true in my case.
 

Dino246

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i don’t wish to be lonely anymore
However this is my choice
I understand "lonely", and I know it's unpleasant. I can tell you from experience that being married and lonely is the worst kind.

Until you can find adequate companionship in Jesus and contentment with yourself, you will be vulnerable to loneliness. Better that you get that sorted out rather than trying to assuage your loneliness with another person. They won't suffice, and you'll feel it more acutely than before. : )
 

TabinRivCA

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Are there any churches by you to join Bible studies or any volunteer work by you? Also, if you think you are too old then that's an automatic handicap. ''As we think in our heart, so are we', Prov 23:7. Pray for God, the Holy Spirit, to guide you in seeking and finding friends, God bless you in this!
 
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I understand "lonely", and I know it's unpleasant. I can tell you from experience that being married and lonely is the worst kind.

Until you can find adequate companionship in Jesus and contentment with yourself, you will be vulnerable to loneliness. Better that you get that sorted out rather than trying to assuage your loneliness with another person. They won't suffice, and you'll feel it more acutely than before. : )
 
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I know right I’ve lived through abuse in my marriage
 
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"I'm not lonely anymore"

So good to have Jesus
Never alone with Jesus however it’s nice to wrap your arms around a person for a cuddle is nice
It’s nice to talk a conversation face to face with a person