Hi Zero,
Nice poll.
It was hard to pick though because I "think" I know what I'd like, but as a friend always tells me, "God won't send you what you want (necessarily), He'll send you what He knows you need." I've also found in life that some people who have qualities I never thought I'd like turned out to be some of the best people for the situation I was facing.
Other things were hard to choose because I'm very middle of the road--if he plays video games, who cares? As long as it doesn't interfere with his everyday life... I don't really mind either way if he's into those kinds of things or not.
And, the old standbys--faithfulness, loyalty, commitment, openness (doesn't keep secrets), and a willingness to pray together about ANYTHING--certainly have to be there as well.