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TabinRivCA

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i know what you mean. some of that gay pride stuff turns me off gays too. but its a mistake to think all gays are like that.
Does Trumps behaviour and attitude represent all conservative views? No. for many he is an embarassment.
True on that, but doesn't God's truth, like Rom 1:26-27, override any 'urges' within our carnal bodies?
 
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I will continue to agonise over scripture's clear denunciation of homosexuality. I still think most of the Bible is HS inspired. But not all. i disagreed with same sex marriage and I dont really want homosexuality to be thought of as "normal". sorry if that offends Dibbly. I do fear gay activism will promote gayness as normal. Children should never choose their own sexuality. Conservatives are right to protect their own religuous freedoms.
 

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Homosexuality is born of lust. Not something anyone is born with. Not something anyone is born immune to.
It is an addiction and not something to be treated lightly.

It is an addiction people actively fight to justify as "good" these days...


Imagine a man who has a wife, but always is tempted to sleep around with other women......
Instead of living in a world where people look down on this, he lives in a world where there are whole communities to fight for this to be seen as "acceptable".....

Do you think you can just tell him to stop?
Nah..... he needs to see how wrong he is for doing what he is doing.... which can only happen if he knows God is good and hates it and how it effects his wife if he even loves her.... as well as how it effects the other women...

If he stops and sees God as good and does love his wife and wants to show it by being faithful..... and cares enough about others to not support and join in with them doing what God hates...

The lusts of the flesh remain.... he will still have fleeting thoughts or memories even if he holds them captive to God before they grow into day dreams or active imagination


If someone has lived a life giving into homosexual thoughts and temptations.... then become born again


these people should be given the truth
but also much love and effort....


the same way we can get addicted to harmful substances which feed our flesh... even something like mcdonalds... we can become addicted to desires and lusts.... the word "fetish" it used to describe these addictions ....


If they still go around justifying something God hates as good.... I'd separate myself from them...

If they see the temptations as wrong but seem to keep facing rough thoughts and desires

they deserve our time and energy... these may be sapplings in Christ well on their way to a powerful testimony of deliverance and growth in Christ....


people who have came back from rock bottom often have learned lessons many never have to


We were given bodies that eventually desire something good... this can get perverted by the world or imaginations left unchecked which grow into something bigger than a "curiosity"
 
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Homosexuality is born of lust. Not something anyone is born with. Not something anyone is born immune to.
It is an addiction and not something to be treated lightly.

It is an addiction people actively fight to justify as "good" these days...


Imagine a man who has a wife, but always is tempted to sleep around with other women......
Instead of living in a world where people look down on this, he lives in a world where there are whole communities to fight for this to be seen as "acceptable".....

Do you think you can just tell him to stop?
Nah..... he needs to see how wrong he is for doing what he is doing.... which can only happen if he knows God is good and hates it and how it effects his wife if he even loves her.... as well as how it effects the other women...

If he stops and sees God as good and does love his wife and wants to show it by being faithful..... and cares enough about others to not support and join in with them doing what God hates...

The lusts of the flesh remain.... he will still have fleeting thoughts or memories even if he holds them captive to God before they grow into day dreams or active imagination


If someone has lived a life giving into homosexual thoughts and temptations.... then become born again


these people should be given the truth
but also much love and effort....


the same way we can get addicted to harmful substances which feed our flesh... even something like mcdonalds... we can become addicted to desires and lusts.... the word "fetish" it used to describe these addictions ....


If they still go around justifying something God hates as good.... I'd separate myself from them...

If they see the temptations as wrong but seem to keep facing rough thoughts and desires

they deserve our time and energy... these may be sapplings in Christ well on their way to a powerful testimony of deliverance and growth in Christ....


people who have came back from rock bottom often have learned lessons many never have to


We were given bodies that eventually desire something good... this can get perverted by the world or imaginations left unchecked which grow into something bigger than a "curiosity"
your opinion is based on what youve read. youve allowed yourself to become radicalised imo. there is a lot of dismissive
hatred in what you say
 

OneOfHis

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your opinion is based on what youve read. youve allowed yourself to become radicalised imo. there is a lot of dismissive
hatred in what you say

Not a chance, only love from me buddy.😉

That is from the bottom of my heart and observations in life paired with all my bible study and walk with God.




(love is wanting the best for someone to the point of sacrifice... not supporting a lifestyle God does not want for them)
 
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OFH's post was very well written and much truth and understanding contained within!

MFR, your interpretation of his post seems a bit 'off' to us, maybe even a little un-kind,
hopefully written by misunderstanding some of what he is saying...
 
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These people love the hate button. 😁
 
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Yes, some Christians act 'holier than thou' and are judgmental rather than compassionate. No mortal person is free of sin.
However, I think it's dangerous to attempt to 'out-think' God as His thoughts are far above ours. When the Word of God says in Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet' I can't let my 'feelings' for someone overrule my telling them what the Word says, IF they ask.
I have seen gay pride parades, and tbh it looks many of the 'men and women' are outright possessed. It doesn't mean I hate them as God will be the judge of us all.
Romans 1 is talking as much about idol worship. It talks about men " leaving the natural use of the woman" ( interesting that no one protests about women being "used"!). In other words they are heterosexual deciding to indulge in idolatrous male sex. Hardly, what we are mainly talking about today.

I,ve been to alot of Pride events. Mainly people having fun. You always get the loonies though who take things too far. I have been appalled by some of the behaviour from some people; but isn't it like that in some churches too? Its humanity folks in all its messy complexity.

It is also easy to judge. But it is no surprise to me that people have formed their own community where they can feel safe and validated.
 
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I will continue to agonise over scripture's clear denunciation of homosexuality. I still think most of the Bible is HS inspired. But not all. i disagreed with same sex marriage and I dont really want homosexuality to be thought of as "normal". sorry if that offends Dibbly. I do fear gay activism will promote gayness as normal. Children should never choose their own sexuality. Conservatives are right to protect their own religuous freedoms.
It is not normal for everyone. Just those who are gay.
 

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It’s really heartbreaking reading this. How you must have suffered. I had a childhood friend, she passed three months back, after fighting her lesbian nature throughout her life. What did the perfect Christians say to her? They told she’d chosen it herself...adding insult to injury. Why couldn’t they just leave her alone? I’ll be praying for you.
I don't understand why what I said is so sad. I was never gender confused. I was an only child the priesthood appealed to me because I thought it looked like a really cool job. They always wore neat and clean clothes. Everybody loved and respected them. It was put upon me even before I knew anything about sex, that it was my responsibility to become a father and to pass on the family name. When I became older and learned the difference between men and women, I had no objections.

As an average white boy I never heard of student grants being available to me, but I heard about the GI bill and the "Now is the time for all good men to come to the aid of their country." Slogan. So I did what I thought was proper and beneficial on all fronts. I'm a grandfather now. I have worked a lot with Gays in crisis counseling, substance abuse and prison ministries. My past is in the past. I was never gay. The most I could use prayer for is Rheumatoid Arthritis and financial help to get to my next home north of the border. But thanks for your concern, truly.
 

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It is not normal for everyone. Just those who are gay.
What you are calling normal behavior is actually called evil in the Bible. Are you not aware that the US Constitution is based on the Magna Carta and that is based on biblical principles. We live a blessed and privileged life in the USA because we have instilled Christian principles. So yes: We should make, if possible, all sin against the law. Because we must still live in this fallen world until Christ comes back.

That said, do you not realize that behavior like homosexuality actually recruits converts when it is allowed to be openly practiced. Children are confused enough, when someone approaches them and tells them to question their sexuality: they will. That is why God said don't allow evil to be among us.

Jdg. 20:13 "Now therefore deliver us the men, the children of Belial, which are in Gibeah, that we may put them to death, and put away evil from Israel. But the children of Benjamin would not hearken to the voice of their brethren the children of Israel:"

2 Kings. 3:2 "And he wrought evil in the sight of the LORD; but not like his father, and like his mother: for he put away the image of Baal that his father had made."

Ecc. 11:10 "Therefore remove sorrow from thy heart, and put away evil from thy flesh: for childhood and youth are vanity."

Isa. 1:16 "Wash you, make you clean; put away the evil of your doings from before mine eyes; cease to do evil;"

So I will have to take a stand against any minority privileged status accorded to homosexuality. In areas where that status has been granted we can't even speak against its practice, without breaking the law. :)(y)
 
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What you are calling normal behavior is actually called evil in the Bible. Are you not aware that the US Constitution is based on the Magna Carta and that is based on biblical principles. We live a blessed and privileged life in the USA because we have instilled Christian principles. So yes: We should make, if possible, all sin against the law. Because we must still live in this fallen world until Christ comes back.

That said, do you not realize that behavior like homosexuality actually recruits converts when it is allowed to be openly practiced. Children are confused enough, when someone approaches them and tells them to question their sexuality: they will. That is why God said don't allow evil to be among us.

Jdg. 20:13 "Now therefore deliver us the men, the children of Belial, which are in Gibeah, that we may put them to death, and put away evil from Israel. But the children of Benjamin would not hearken to the voice of their brethren the children of Israel:"

2 Kings. 3:2 "And he wrought evil in the sight of the LORD; but not like his father, and like his mother: for he put away the image of Baal that his father had made."

Ecc. 11:10 "Therefore remove sorrow from thy heart, and put away evil from thy flesh: for childhood and youth are vanity."

Isa. 1:16 "Wash you, make you clean; put away the evil of your doings from before mine eyes; cease to do evil;"

So I will have to take a stand against any minority privileged status accorded to homosexuality. In areas where that status has been granted we can't even speak against its practice, without breaking the law. :)(y)
Magna Carta was a charter that limited the freedom of the king to act in an arbitrary manner and accorded the rights of the
Kings subjects under the law. You are proposing a theocracy in which the rights of people you disagree with are taken away.
Given the power of the state you think you should have ( by making all "sin" against the law) it is worrying that the Judges 20:13 verse you quote talks about putting people to death.....we know, in history, where that ends!

And as for gay people recruiting converts, this is laughable.
 
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Magna Carta was a charter that limited the freedom of the king to act in an arbitrary manner and accorded the rights of the
Kings subjects under the law. You are proposing a theocracy in which the rights of people you disagree with are taken away.
Given the power of the state you think you should have ( by making all "sin" against the law) it is worrying that the Judges 20:13 verse you quote talks about putting people to death.....we know, in history, where that ends!

And as for gay people recruiting converts, this is laughable.
not at all

I was well acquainted with a certain ministry in which that very thing was done

there were rumors, but finally it all hit the fan

the so called evangelist was a practicing homosexual and he was particularly fond of boys...teenagers...was told he was called a 'chicken hawk' by one of his detractors, who, even though a homosexual himself, did not care for this person because of his duplicity and the way he used people. I personally knew these people and and spoke with them

you are very very wrong in trying to state young men or boys are not recruited. you are ignorant of what actually goes on in this world if you think no homosexual or ex homosexual was not recruited into that sin

get off your high horse.

there is a cure for homosexuality and His name is Jesus

the Bible has the power to change a person's mind and it is within the mind that life occurs before it is practiced physically

as a man thinketh...so is he

a person can talk themself into sin ANY sin and excuse it and practice it and have the deceived idea that God is somehow responsible or He would change them

well God has already made a way. a person can be a thief, a murderer, an abuser of children ...doesn't matter...Jesus can wash away every sin by His blood shed for our redemption...the forgiveness of our sins

do not fool yourself today. your homosexuality and the practice of that sin can be forgiven
 

TabinRivCA

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Romans 1 is talking as much about idol worship. It talks about men " leaving the natural use of the woman" ( interesting that no one protests about women being "used"!). In other words they are heterosexual deciding to indulge in idolatrous male sex. Hardly, what we are mainly talking about today.

I,ve been to alot of Pride events. Mainly people having fun. You always get the loonies though who take things too far. I have been appalled by some of the behaviour from some people; but isn't it like that in some churches too? Its humanity folks in all its messy complexity.

It is also easy to judge. But it is no surprise to me that people have formed their own community where they can feel safe and validated.
If you're referring to 'the Body of Christ, the Church' yes we are definitely a community, and while there are certainly cinos (Christians in name only) and hypocrites, they will answer as we all will for our own faults.
Re your first paragraph, idolatry is the putting of something above the mandates of God. It's saying they thought themselves so vain as to disregard God's ways and pervert them to their own lusts. Lust is that desire when someone knows they are going against what God said is appropriate and takes the plunge anyway. Albeit, some struggles/urges are stronger than others, if they are not brought into subjugation and replaced with Scripture.
In another reply you said gays recruiting others is laughable. I've seen otherwise. On one popular show, this rich gay guy was attracted to a very good-looking male. He knew the male was looking for a female but kept ogling him and making advances, tbh it was sickening. It was on the show so the 'object' was trying to bow out w/o sounding offensive, and it was sick that he would even have to be approached like that esp on air.
Also, I'm not judging you as I am not a judge. But if someone asks my viewpoint, I'm not going to sugar-coat it, bc I would be guilty myself of doing that. God bless.
 
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not at all

I was well acquainted with a certain ministry in which that very thing was done

there were rumors, but finally it all hit the fan

the so called evangelist was a practicing homosexual and he was particularly fond of boys...teenagers...was told he was called a 'chicken hawk' by one of his detractors, who, even though a homosexual himself, did not care for this person because of his duplicity and the way he used people. I personally knew these people and and spoke with them

you are very very wrong in trying to state young men or boys are not recruited. you are ignorant of what actually goes on in this world if you think no homosexual or ex homosexual was not recruited into that sin

get off your high horse.

there is a cure for homosexuality and His name is Jesus

the Bible has the power to change a person's mind and it is within the mind that life occurs before it is practiced physically

as a man thinketh...so is he

a person can talk themself into sin ANY sin and excuse it and practice it and have the deceived idea that God is somehow responsible or He would change them

well God has already made a way. a person can be a thief, a murderer, an abuser of children ...doesn't matter...Jesus can wash away every sin by His blood shed for our redemption...the forgiveness of our sins

do not fool yourself today. your homosexuality and the practice of that sin can be forgiven
We could all give examples of people who abuse other people, whatever their sexuality. I,m not sure what you are trying to prove? This does not evidence an orchestrated campaign of recruitment, merely that some human beings behave badly.
 
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If you're referring to 'the Body of Christ, the Church' yes we are definitely a community, and while there are certainly cinos (Christians in name only) and hypocrites, they will answer as we all will for our own faults.
Re your first paragraph, idolatry is the putting of something above the mandates of God. It's saying they thought themselves so vain as to disregard God's ways and pervert them to their own lusts. Lust is that desire when someone knows they are going against what God said is appropriate and takes the plunge anyway. Albeit, some struggles/urges are stronger than others, if they are not brought into subjugation and replaced with Scripture.
In another reply you said gays recruiting others is laughable. I've seen otherwise. On one popular show, this rich gay guy was attracted to a very good-looking male. He knew the male was looking for a female but kept ogling him and making advances, tbh it was sickening. It was on the show so the 'object' was trying to bow out w/o sounding offensive, and it was sick that he would even have to be approached like that esp on air.
Also, I'm not judging you as I am not a judge. But if someone asks my viewpoint, I'm not going to sugar-coat it, bc I would be guilty myself of doing that. God bless.
Well attractive people do get chatted up. That isn't "recruitment". Nightclubs are full of people trying to hit on others. We do have the ability to say we aren't interested.

I,m very happy for God to judge me. The problem comes from judgements from other people.
 

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Well, to me the gay guy looked as if he was insistent on swaying the other male and yes men hit up on gals and vice versa. I had a sinful lifestyle and turned myself around. I had to pull back the reigns, God bless.
 
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We could all give examples of people who abuse other people, whatever their sexuality. I,m not sure what you are trying to prove? This does not evidence an orchestrated campaign of recruitment, merely that some human beings behave badly.

but you said this:

And as for gay people recruiting converts, this is laughable.
now you are saying something quite different

you said that gay people recruiting converts is laughable

so what is it then? not so funny now? or are you just rolling along offering excuses for what God states will NOT be in His heaven?

the actual question is rather what you wish you could prove...but even that is not a question

and now you introduce the word orchestrated with the intent of seeming to create the illusion that was what I said

I didn't

however and again, everyone here can do their own research and refute the lie that gays do not go after straight people

let me add that I have had lesbians approach me. one in particular when I was working and going to school at the same time. I had a hard time avoiding her trying to touch me and press against me. I was revolted

please

quit the pretense

we all know what is actually going on here...the actual orchestrated campaigns are the LGBTQ community trying to run the country here and their militant marches and websites. suing Christian companies to attempt to make them have no choice in how they run their own companies because the minority is moved by anti God sentiments and they despise the Bible and Christians pointing out what God states about homosexuality
 
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We could all give examples of people who abuse other people, whatever their sexuality. I,m not sure what you are trying to prove? This does not evidence an orchestrated campaign of recruitment, merely that some human beings behave badly.
rabbit hole

this is not about abuse

this is about the word of God and what GOD states

you cannot change that and you will have to answer to God as will every other homosexual...past...present and future

homosexuality is a perversion of God's creation