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Thank you so much! I appreciate that.You sound like a caring person and they probably mean no harm or realize you're growing up in Jesus ..
Thank you so much! I appreciate that.You sound like a caring person and they probably mean no harm or realize you're growing up in Jesus ..
Wait, what? I thought you said you were already one of Susanna's minionsI have decided to join the cult of Susana.![]()
I wouldn't trust a leader who does not think any 40 year old single saint could be strong in that area and not on the brink of sinning. It would make me wonder if that leader has ever experienced total self control and victory over that before they got married? If they are still in bondage to the same sin but think that marriage gave them permission to keep it?
Yep, a lot of people do it.You know, I didn’t ever realize that people actually did this. I figured a person was speaking with a single person and then setting up a date in person (to determine compatibility). Not that the person was speaking with multiple people at once determining which of these people they’d like to go on a date with.
Bobby: So, hows it going?
China: Good, didn’t really like Bob too much.
Bobby: Oh no? Well India isn’t as nice as you.
China: Oh thanks, Rick though he’s gunning for your spot.
Bobby: Yeah, Katy could beat you any day now.
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Yep, a lot of people do it.
And, hi, friend. It's been way too long.Still causing trouble?
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Wish i’d been a Christian at your ageI’ve been a Christian now for about 7 years, and I’m finally encountering what I will call the wall of judgement from my Christian friends. It is not only in the area of dating, although this seems to be the topic that they care about the the most, but also in other areas like how often I read my Bible, or if I am serving others enough, or if I endure trials with joy because that is godly.
But I will focus on the area of dating. It is disheartening to me, and I don’t feel like I can date unless it is according to their standards. To clarify, we all agree on the Biblical stance regarding fornication. I’m referring to all the additional expectations they have.
For example:
-Online dating isn’t good.
-Don’t spend too much time taking to the other person because that means they are becoming your god.
-They aren’t good enough because they aren’t a “strong” Christian.
-Wait a certain amount of time between dating people.
My main question is this-how do you all deal with the way other Christians pressurize the dating environment?
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Why , how would that of changed your life?
can of worms, just wish I had been ‘if I knew then, what I know now’
It's been going! Finally done with my bachelor's and waiting to see if I need to student teach!Yes it has; hows life treating you?
It's been going! Finally done with my bachelor's and waiting to see if I need to student teach!
Only you should decide what's best for you. All that stuff is really none of their beeswax.I’ve been a Christian now for about 7 years, and I’m finally encountering what I will call the wall of judgement from my Christian friends. It is not only in the area of dating, although this seems to be the topic that they care about the the most, but also in other areas like how often I read my Bible, or if I am serving others enough, or if I endure trials with joy because that is godly.
But I will focus on the area of dating. It is disheartening to me, and I don’t feel like I can date unless it is according to their standards. To clarify, we all agree on the Biblical stance regarding fornication. I’m referring to all the additional expectations they have.
For example:
-Online dating isn’t good.
-Don’t spend too much time taking to the other person because that means they are becoming your god.
-They aren’t good enough because they aren’t a “strong” Christian.
-Wait a certain amount of time between dating people.
My main question is this-how do you all deal with the way other Christians pressurize the dating environment?
Only you should decide what's best for you. All that stuff is really none of their beeswax.
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Hi, MegMarch.I’ve been a Christian now for about 7 years, and I’m finally encountering what I will call the wall of judgement from my Christian friends. It is not only in the area of dating, although this seems to be the topic that they care about the the most, but also in other areas like how often I read my Bible, or if I am serving others enough, or if I endure trials with joy because that is godly.
But I will focus on the area of dating. It is disheartening to me, and I don’t feel like I can date unless it is according to their standards. To clarify, we all agree on the Biblical stance regarding fornication. I’m referring to all the additional expectations they have.
For example:
-Online dating isn’t good.
-Don’t spend too much time taking to the other person because that means they are becoming your god.
-They aren’t good enough because they aren’t a “strong” Christian.
-Wait a certain amount of time between dating people.
My main question is this-how do you all deal with the way other Christians pressurize the dating environment?
Laura? Is that you?
Oh my gosh, the theme from that show is one of my most favorite pieces of music ever ♥Now you made me think of that scary Twin Peaks stuff.