we are called to speak the truth as Jesus did, as you said, no more doubts, the Bible is very clear about the matter,
[1 Corinthians 6:9-10
9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.]
if they read truly genuine christian thoughs from the bible the will read passages like this so why we should change or make it soft? for what reason? to be pleasant to men? better be severe and make the sin known to the person rather then be soft.
This is the case for every human and whatever the sin could be, Jesus died for our sins and without His death we would have ended at the hell. So people have to be concerned of their condition because it's taking them to hell. There is so much more to say in terms of homosexuality, the devils lies and so on....
And in agreement with Silverwings, submit your thoughts to the authority of christ, none has the power to stand over His autorithy, none, your thoughts neither. And reply also with the word of God when the enemy comes, like Jesus did in the wilderness temptation.