LOL@ "skippy do guys" !!!!
A guy can be compassionate and have a heart for others and still be manly. Jesus was/IS. Peter was. Paul was.
And playful is ALWAYS awesome.
If I had just the photos to pick from, I would have to say that, for me, Denton is the physically attractive one, not Kutcher. Kutcher seems like too much of a little boy for me to find him physically attractive. But, as you say, there are other things about a person to consider. For all I know, Denton could be a jerk. Kutcher, on the other hand, is actually a very intelligent, funny guy.
I tend to lean toward more manly men because of my strong nature AND because....silly me...I want to be the pretty one in a couple.