Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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Magenta

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Kauko said:
But not to the OP.
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Boo hoo :rolleyes::oops::rolleyes:

Having temper tantrums because the spotlight is taken off you for a few seconds?

Really. Very unattractive. Yeah. You will never find a girlfriend.

Now that you know this and are so thoroughly convinced of this in
your own mind, you should find something more productive to do.
 
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Kauko said:
Seriously this is the only thread where you can laugh together ?
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oh, there are PLENTY of others........
but if YOU want to know what they are then YOU are going to have to do what it takes and go find them for yourself.
 
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Magenta said:
Boo hoo :rolleyes::oops::rolleyes:

Having temper tantrums because the spotlight is taken off you for a few seconds?

Really. Very unattractive. Yeah. You will never find a girlfriend.

Now that you know this and are so thoroughly convinced of this in
your own mind, you should find something more productive to do.
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Not really. I dont mind.

You also lose doing this. Because you will not be able to say there are 31 pages of good advice this way.
 
Magenta

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Kauko said:
Seriously this is the only thread where you can laugh together ?
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Seriously, dude, get your nose out of your nether regions.

Your post stream shows that your last 200 posts have been nowhere but here.

Look at anybody else's and see if you see the same thing.

I guarantee you, you will not.
 
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Magenta said:
Seriously, dude, get your nose out of your nether regions.

Your post stream shows that your last 200 posts have been nowhere but here.

Look at anybody else's and see if you see the same thing.

I guarantee you, you will not.
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I dont care.
 
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Kauko said:
You also lose doing this.
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If you sink and fail despite my efforts to help it is not my fault.

I have lost nothing. I am here whether you are or not, and have been for six years.

You have already failed according to you. Ten years of effort and you have
nothing to show for it except the knowledge that you are wasting your time.
 
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Kauko said:
Some of them may be useful in certain aspects. Im not going to deny it.
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okay, but what about certain aspects concerning YOU.......
in 31 pages, haven't you been given good advice for YOUR current situation?
 
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Magenta said:
If you sink and fail despite my efforts to help it is not my fault.

I have lost nothing. I am here whether you are or not, and have been for six years.
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Nah, forget it.
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You have already failed according to you. Ten years of effort and you have
nothing to show for it except the knowledge that you are wasting your time.
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This is why this thread exists.
 
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But why exactly ? Because Im an alcoholic ? Then I can change that !
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Yes alcoholism (and pretty much any other addiction) is a big red flag in a potential date. More often than not an addict will prove to love and be more devoted to their addiction than to another human being. And talk is cheap (and addicts often resort to lying or twisitng the truth to cover their addicitons) so making that change instead of just saying you can change really needs to happen before you can have a healthy relationship.

But beyond that, well take it from the single Christian women here: in a thread of 600 posts you have convinced all of us that you are not "a man of God" that any woman should let "become her star spiritual advisor and guide her in love and wisdom". Honestly that whole way of saying it sets off some concerns about just how controlling you would be (and controlling is not a quality of a man of God). Instead you've shown a lack of love and respect for others, complete self-absorption, completely unrealistic expectations, and a lack of wisdom and self guidance that have convinced all of us that it would be utter foolishness for anyone to look to you for any sort of leadership or guidance right now. Seriously, would you want your sister to marry a guy like you?

So let's be super super blunt here: The kind of woman you are dreaming of is not dreaming of someone like you and wouldn't even go on a first date with you. Your only chance of ever maybe possibly making anything close to this dream come true is to become the kind of man that matches what the kind of woman you dream of is looking for. If you can't or won't do that, then the prevalence of Christian woman in Finland doesn't matter because even if there was one on every street, you wouldn't have a chance with any of them.
 
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Is this the longest running thread for going around in circles?


I sincerely pray @Kauko that you are delivered from alcohol, healed in your heart of whatever you may need healing of and meet a nice, Christian woman whom you can become a team with in the name of Jesus.
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I second that emotion.
 
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Godsgirl83 said:
that WAS interesting to SOME folks.........

interesting:
arousing curiosity or interest; holding or catching the attention.
"an interesting debate"





no you see, spam would be just coming in here posting random things that NO ONE understands or cares for.

It has been suggested that you browse around the site and get to know some of the people here.
I can tell you have not done that much if at all because if you were familiar with some of the more frequently posted upon threads then you would see this for what it is.........
humor among users that are familiar with each other and other threads.
Happens all the time here, especially in the singles forums.
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This is for sure. :cool:
 
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cinder said:
These are also the reasons such a woman wouldn't want to be with you as you are now. You simply don't meet the criteria for the man she wants. So right now it won't do you any good to meet 1,000 such women because none of them would agree to date you.


That's pretty much what we've been saying. Focus on changing what you can change to be a better you and attractive to the kind of person you want to be with. And don't be too proud to find some people who've made the changes you'd like to make and ask for help / advice.
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Excellent advice that will most certainly be ignored by the OP.
 
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Yes alcoholism (and pretty much any other addiction) is a big red flag in a potential date. More often than not an addict will prove to love and be more devoted to their addiction than to another human being. And talk is cheap (and addicts often resort to lying or twisitng the truth to cover their addicitons) so making that change instead of just saying you can change really needs to happen before you can have a healthy relationship.
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I agree with this.
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Honestly that whole way of saying it sets off some concerns about just how controlling you would be (and controlling is not a quality of a man of God).
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So that I should let her go in a trip to Cuba alone and otherwise Im an evil controlling oppressive macho ?
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Instead you've shown a lack of love and respect for others,
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Is your definition of love and respect for others agreeing with them in everything ? I have to tell you that Im not a very lovely person anyway. I need my time to really love someone. But I dont think I have lacked respect for you. Maybe Im wrong but atleast I have not called anybody "fool" or certain word.
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complete self-absorption
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But how can you tell me "think about the girl" if I havent even seen her with my eyes ?
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completely unrealistic expectations
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So are you telling me to date the tattooed blue haired unbeliever ? Or you are asking me to be 100 percent perfect and flawless while allowing the girl to sin everytime she wants because I cant expect her to be a good Christian ?
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and a lack of wisdom and self guidance that have convinced all of us that it would be utter foolishness for anyone to look to you for any sort of leadership or guidance right now.
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Explain me this better please.
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Your only chance of ever maybe possibly making anything close to this dream come true is to become the kind of man that matches what the kind of woman you dream of is looking for.
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But what is the kind of man that matches what the kind of woman I dream of is looking for ?
 
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