"I Only Date 110-Pound Women..." (Dating Outside Your Body Type?)

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How Do You Feel About Dating and Body Types?

  • I wish to date someone about the same size as I am.

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • I wish to date someone a bit larger than I am.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I wish to date someone with a smaller/thinner body type than mine.

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • I don't care what their size or health habits are--I look at the heart.

    Votes: 3 23.1%

  • I would date/marry someone with unhealthy lifestyle habits (overeating, no exercise, junk food, etc.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • A healthy lifestyle is very important to me when choosing a date/spouse.

    Votes: 5 38.5%

  • I don't care about size as long as they were healthy and tried to live a healthy lifestyle.

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • Wanting to date someone outside your own body type is shallow and heartless.

    Votes: 1 7.7%

  • Having certain body type preferences is wrong.

    Votes: 1 7.7%

  • It's ok to have certain body type preferences.

    Votes: 6 46.2%

  • There's nothing wrong with wanting to date a different body type than your own.

    Votes: 5 38.5%

  • Body type and health habits shouldn't matter, period. Only the heart should count.

    Votes: 1 7.7%

  • I have rejected others because of their body type/health habits.

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • Others have rejected me because of my body type/health habits.

    Votes: 7 53.8%

  • Someone should love me for who I am, no matter what my body type/lifestyle. I should not have to cha

    Votes: 2 15.4%

  • It is a sin to choose to live in an unhealthy manner (overeating, unhealthy foods, no exercise.)

    Votes: 2 15.4%

  • Everyone should strive to make constant improvements in their health, no matther what their body typ

    Votes: 5 38.5%

  • Some people should be excused from having to try to so hard at being healthy. (Why? What are the exc

    Votes: 1 7.7%

  • I'm not at my healthiest because... But, someone should love me because... (fill in the blanks.)

    Votes: 1 7.7%

  • I work hard at being healthy and want/expect my spouse to live the same way.

    Votes: 2 15.4%

  • Other--I wish to share something in my post.

    Votes: 2 15.4%
  • Total voters
    13
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tif

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rainacorn said:
Good points, Rissa.

Health has to be a concern if you want to have children. An overweight person is significantly more likely to have overweight children. Even if you love your 'curves' or whatever people try to call their fatness, do you really want to do that to your children? You wouldn't be totally guilt ridden if you gave them childhood diabeetus? You wouldn't feel bad about not being able to play with them for any stretch of time without having a coronary? You wouldn't have a problem with their developmental disorders as a result of unhealthy diets?

If my husband died in his 40s from being super fat and left me to raise our fat, stupid, maladjusted children on my own, I wouldn't really have anyone to blame but myself. Being in a partnership means being there for each other. You should do everything within your power to keep yourself (and your family) healthy.

(sorry if that last bit came off as harsh. I started laughing at what I was typing and just ran with it)
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Wow, it's great that you laughed so hard. Don't even think of having some sensitivity for your brothers and sisters in Christ who struggle with medical conditions and the pain of being called "stupid, fat and maladjusted" on a regular basis.

I can't even believe people are saying things like this. What a great, loving, Christian attitude.

I can't even read any more of this. Rainacorn, your words have hurt me.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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tif said:
Wow, it's great that you laughed so hard. Don't even think of having some sensitivity for your brothers and sisters in Christ who struggle with medical conditions and the pain of being called "stupid, fat and maladjusted" on a regular basis.

I can't even believe people are saying things like this. What a great, loving, Christian attitude.

I can't even read any more of this. Rainacorn, your words have hurt me.
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Tif, just between you me and all the people on this whole entire site, what she said was absolutely horrible. Seriously, it was a horrible malicious rude thing to say.

And im not sure why she was laughing so hard, nothing in her post was even slightly funny...... at all.

Dont be upset about what she said. Remember, hurting people hurt others, but healthy people help others. She obviously has issues with herself, and is taking it out on other people to try and feel better.
 
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allforfun

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I'm new here, but I'm glad this is one of my first threads I read, so I could get a "real" point of view of most of the posters. Nothing brings out the hatred like a good argument over curves of a woman. It is nice that most people don't even bother hiding their dislike of the human race anymore though. :-/
 
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Megatron

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Yeah rainacorn, that was kind of lame. If you dont like bigger people, thats cool. No need to run your mouth though. Although I'll be honest, with an attitude like yours, perhaps you should be concerned with how you will ever find a man to put up with you long enough to get married, and not whether or not he will help you raise your maladjusted children.
 
shellybell7

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Dang Raincorn... I feel sorry for your children no not because they are maladjusted fat kids as YOU say.. but because you are their mother... yikes!!1 now that is going to take years of counseling to get over.. as for body type hmm i've always loved tall guys (bigger or slender) its normally been slender in my past i have no idea why but it has.. so yeah.
 
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NukePooch

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Being a big guy, I've been rejected for it...but anyone who thinks they know me solely on the basis of my belt size is someone I wouldn't waste any time on...same thing with the thickness of my wallet, the number of degrees on my wall, the number of square feet in my house, etc...
 
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rainacorn

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Nice to see that my generalized statement has garnered so many personal attacks. Way to rise above, people.
 
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1still_waters

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Well seeing I'm the only mod on duty right now and I got this and a few hundred chatters to deal with, I'm just going to close this thread til I can deal further with it. Please everyone involved, be a lil more sensitive on issues like this.
 
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