What would it take?
Something special about the girl I was dating.
Not just liking the same things but helping me be better at doing the same things, and, I helping her.
Wit. Must have wit.
Wisdom. must have wise words .
Shopping as a hobby would not go over well, but if its for business reasons (since I buy and sell things for a living) that's fine.
A something-something-something spark to her that lights my world on fire.
And, last, but really first,
, a personal relationship with Jesus and an understanding of the Holy Spirit and how God gave us a part of Himself, 24/7, to protect, guide, help lead us successfully through the everyday doings of life. (John the Baptist time of Jesus baptized is where HS mentioned as our helper).