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Alisha86

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People just don't get what I'm going through they are not in my shoes. I feel like talking 2 a wall. I don't know what 2 say anymore. It confuses 😕 me
 

Seeker47

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It is painful when no one understands what we are experiencing, usually because they have (not yet) gone through the trial themselves. Sometimes we can at least take a little joy from that.

But is it not comforting that there is one who hears and understands our grunts.
 

TabinRivCA

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People just don't get what I'm going through they are not in my shoes. I feel like talking 2 a wall. I don't know what 2 say anymore. It confuses 😕 me
If you’re trying to figure your life out but you seem to end up feeling lost along the way, it’s okay. Everyone felt clueless at some point in their lives, too. If you think that you’re on the wrong path, don’t be afraid to turn around and start again. In the end, what matters most are the things that you’ve learned on your journey. Don’t count your failures. Make each failure count by using them as the foundation for your stronger self.
If you've ever read any Psalms, you'll see the travails King David went through during his life, but He stayed dependent on God always, and lived to a good age. Lesson being we will go through trials and tests but when we keep faith/trust in God we won't fail because He does love us.
 

Lynx

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People just don't get what I'm going through they are not in my shoes. I feel like talking 2 a wall. I don't know what 2 say anymore. It confuses 😕 me
Lots of people feel like that. Surely you have heard others say the same thing.

And yeah, life is confusing. It beats the alternative though, so we muddle through it as best we can. :cool:
 
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People just don't get what I'm going through they are not in my shoes. I feel like talking 2 a wall. I don't know what 2 say anymore. It confuses 😕 me
I don’t know what you’re going through exactly, but confusion isn’t from God. Could be a sign to take a different direction.

May I ask, are you a Christian?
 

JaumeJ

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Just a few moments ago I completed watching and hearing the four relatings of the Godpel by Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.

The actor seated as Jesus Yeshua crucified is the same I saw in Matthew and in Luke. Not more than ten minutes ago I was finishing it. It was very beautiful and moving. Hes name is Selva Rasalingam.

I do believe watching these renditions is better than hearing a preacher, though the narrator is like having a preacher at home. Faith does indeed come by HEARING the word, amen.

Your comment is perfect. God bless you..
 
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Just a few moments ago I completed watching and hearing the four relatings of the Godpel by Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.

The actor seated as Jesus Yeshua crucified is the same I saw in Matthew and in Luke. Not more than ten minutes ago I was finishing it. It was very beautiful and moving. Hes name is Selva Rasalingam.

I do believe watching these renditions is better than hearing a preacher, though the narrator is like having a preacher at home. Faith does indeed come by HEARING the word, amen.

Your comment is perfect. God bless you..
I just watched one called The Life of Jesus in English on YouTube. Now I’m watching it in Vietnamese. 👍🏻

It’s pretty good, but, though they claim true accuracy to the Bible, I have noticed at least one discrepancy so far and it’s a very fine detail. However, it is prophetically important nonetheless.
 

Alisha86

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I don’t know what you’re going through exactly, but confusion isn’t from God. Could be a sign to take a different direction.

May I ask, are you a Christian?
I don't know
 

tourist

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Lots of people feel like that. Surely you have heard others say the same thing.

And yeah, life is confusing. It beats the alternative though, so we muddle through it as best we can. :cool:
Muddle through, yeah, that's what I do to. Struggle through as well.
 

Alisha86

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It is painful when no one understands what we are experiencing, usually because they have (not yet) gone through the trial themselves. Sometimes we can at least take a little joy from that.

But is it not comforting that there is one who hears and understands our grunts.
Do u see Susan in my pic??? I went on this chat called christianschats.net a guy name Paul runs it and he said if I was Susan I didn't understand and he and he show a picture of a dirty floor and say watch ur step and said unless u come 2 Jesus as a little child u will never see the kingdom of God. He explain the dirty floor represents fungi and mold. And he said if I was Susan and I said are u saying I'm a demon. He said Susan had birth Satan and Mary birth Jesus. I said I was numb n have no feeling lifeless and he said bingo. He said I might have legion of demons and he could tell in my picture and sense it in his spirit and I guess he is right. I might definitely be.
 

Alisha86

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Muddle through, yeah, that's what I do to. Struggle through as well.
I guess because I rejected God n his holy spirit and he left me so I have 2 deal with it I don't know if is permanent or chastisement
 
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My heart is so hardened it doesn't retain the things of God or my mind
Bit by bit you can come to agree with God and then you will change. Let’s start today. God has declared we have all sinned and fallen short of His glory and are in need of a savior to forgive us and give us grace. Accessing this forgiveness and grace comes through faith in what Jesus Christ did for us.

Have you read some of the Bible? What is your native language?
 

shittim

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Do u see Susan in my pic??? I went on this chat called christianschats.net a guy name Paul runs it and he said if I was Susan I didn't understand and he and he show a picture of a dirty floor and say watch ur step and said unless u come 2 Jesus as a little child u will never see the kingdom of God. He explain the dirty floor represents fungi and mold. And he said if I was Susan and I said are u saying I'm a demon. He said Susan had birth Satan and Mary birth Jesus. I said I was numb n have no feeling lifeless and he said bingo. He said I might have legion of demons and he could tell in my picture and sense it in his spirit and I guess he is right. I might definitely be.


don't listen to that person anymore, it sounds like he is where some of the confusion is coming from.
 

Billyd

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People just don't get what I'm going through they are not in my shoes. I feel like talking 2 a wall. I don't know what 2 say anymore. It confuses 😕 me
When you don't know what to say, it's time to learn. Open your Bible, ask God to help you understand, and start reading. Find a Bible believing, Bible teaching church, attend it's services, and become a part of the church ministries.
 

Alisha86

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Bit by bit you can come to agree with God and then you will change. Let’s start today. God has declared we have all sinned and fallen short of His glory and are in need of a savior to forgive us and give us grace. Accessing this forgiveness and grace comes through faith in what Jesus Christ did for us.

Have you read some of the Bible? What is your native language?
English n no
 

ebdesroches

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I guess because I rejected God n his holy spirit and he left me so I have 2 deal with it I don't know if is permanent or chastisement
Gods felt presence comes and goes. That you even think you may have lost His Spirit is proof you have not. You would not even care if He abandoned you.

St John of the Cross went through some very dark times (check out Dark Night of the Soul on the internet…can download).

You appear to be going through dark times, hold on He has not abandoned you.

When His felt presence is missing its time to hold on to your faith which is still real. Its the faith that He saves you that counts, hold on to that.

The dark days won’t last forever, just like they didn't for John of the cross.
 

arthurfleminger

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Alisha, you purposely are withholding information on your situation. And you aren't telling anyone the details of your sadness and despair and that's okay. So, let me ask you, "What do you hope for as a solution to your problems?" What do you hope for and want to happen that would make you happy?