Lemmee tell a story.
There once was a guy who griped because he was upset with the life he had. When he told his story to others, some thought it would be a good time to voice their own gripes because he was doing it. Others thought they could be one to help him thru his problems, but it didn't work. There was also another group trying to stop the griping by griping themselves that he was griping, hoping others would notice & stop. That didn't work either.
There are some lessons to be learned by all(me included).
1. Griping about God's plan will not solve your problem, because that's NOT the problem. God NEVER is the problem. It's always us.
2. God didn't call any of us to be a "fixer". Fixers usually work for the Mafia & organized crime to make problems go away. If we try to 'fix' someone's problem, we usually make it worse because God didn't call us to be the church's /world's answer man. It also puts us in a place where we fight against God's plan for that person.
3. If the first person's griping is to no avail, how do you think your griping about it will fix it? Jonah was a griper, & you see where it got him.
Did any good come from this? Maybe. The only thing we accomplished was showing our true colors & how we couldn't fight our way out of a wet paper bag without God's intervention.
IF we come to that conclusion, we might be better for it IF we learn our lesson & turn it over to God who is the real FIXER & ALLOW HIM to work.